Since the law states that a woman and the woman ALONE makes the SOLE decision whether or not to bring a child into the world, how is it that the same law forces a man to pay her money for such decision? That would be like someone donating $15,000 to me because it makes them feel good, and I...

I always thought it was for rasing the child. But thay want you to pay xtra for /daycare / Insureance /and anything else they think is xtra/. I always here its your half Well were is the half on me rasing my daughter as a ncp or (atm) you have zero say so or input into your child life. ncp need to...

I have not seen this CS topic discussed previously, so I thought I'd raise it for discussion. It's fairly common for fathers to get split custody when teenagers become unmanageable for the CP mothers. My son came to live with me when he had just turned 14. My daughter, who is younger, continued...

Just out of curiosity, how many of you dads knew about the gross injustices of the modern-day "child support" system prior to being trapped in it yourself? And how many were utterly clueless about just how bad it is for fathers? I had absolutely no idea just how bad things were before I...

I want to offer a viable solution to problems associated with separation and divorce that address child custody and support. This is NOT theory, but is based on an actual divorce case. It is NOT joint custody. It should meet current guidelines in most states as they now exist. It enables both...

Hello, I was involved for a time with a man by the name of Michael F. O'Shaughnessy when I live in Central New York(I lived in Morrisville, NY). He was very handsome, and a smooth talker, we used to talk alot, and seemed to have nice times together with me and my aged mother(I came from a...

Before you alienate your children from their dads and the new wife you might want to consider this.... My husband pays support to his children from his first marriage. His ex wife has cut off all contact. He now has no real loyalty to them except the obvious responsibility to pay his support....

"TeacherMama" wrote in message ... Now, by men keeping the assets they earned, do you mean that the women should be booted out of the house they were buying because the man's earned money made the payments? No, I don't think...

Hmmm..ok. I heard that this was a forum for mainly men, but I will take my chances. I need help/advice. My daughter's ex-husband, who is in the military is getting ready to go to Japan (his choice). He has threatened my daughter that if she does not agree for their son to come to Japan (4 yrs old)...

Just saw a trailer for a Dr. Phil show where he is beating up on a deadbeat dad. It airs tonight! The father did want to know where all his money goes, Phil told him, "it's none of your business!".

"Krista" wrote in message ... When I left my ex he was making a bit over $32,500/year gross. He also had a side business that I helped him start and partially funded, but whenever I asked him about it, he was...

I am looking for opinions. My daughter, 14, lives during the school year with her mom who lives 10 miles or so out in the country. It is legal for 14-year-olds to drive to and from school in that state, so her mom and step-dad have purchased and repaired a vehicle for her to drive. Otherwise,...

I came across an interesting excerpt below in reading the Democratic partys platform. Things are hard enough for parents trying to pay child support but the DNC intends to make it even more difficult. If you have trouble making ends meet with the lifestyle child support payments and consider...

My guess is FFK is a gal whose ex is 15k in the bucket on his CS, and has an axe to grind with any man who gets a dime behind in his CS. If I were her ex, she wouldn't get a dime. Probably is a lousy mother, and was even a worse wife. I'd sit in jail first. Am I close? nm

http://www.knoxnews.com/news/2008/apr/21/campfields-child-support-termination-bill/ Campfield's child support termination bill attacked Briley says measure would punish youth for conduct of parents By Tom Humphrey Monday, April 21, 2008 NASHVILLE - State Rep. Stacey Campfield was questioned...

KEEP YOUR PANTS ON! (ON ALL DAY, ON ALL NIGHT) (C) 1994-1995,2001 There are times when, as a man, I just have to hang my head between my knees and weep with joy when I contemplate my reproductive rights. We have no recourse or remedy in cases of accidental pregnancy, if we're lied to...

In general, child support obligations will terminate once the child reach the age of majority, unless the child is in college (in which case the parent is still obligated), or if the child has been declared emancipated by a court. Child support obligations will also terminate if a parent's rights...

So I just started to pay CS (over $1000 per month). I am now beginning to see where that money goes: - about $500 to feed and provide necistites to the children (2) - ex's lawyer fees to take me to court - new mini-van - new house - trips - other non-kid things

Woman, mid 40s, discovers she is pregnant after seeing a man in another state, who lives 3 hours away, only a few times and they stopped seeing each other the day after alleged conception occurred. The woman has three boys, 21, 17, and 9 from the same ex-husband. Both the man (who has no...

Subject: Man Forced To Use Loan For Child Support, Not Car Reply-To: "Dusty" From: "Dusty" Newsgroups: alt.child-support, Now, he can file bankruptcy, and, the financial insitution will be left holding the bag. Otherwise, his junker he is driving now will...