child behavior
Our boy has recently been returned to us after 9 mo. in foster care.
My wife and I have an addiction problem whitch we ars now getting under control with the help of AA. While in foster care there was some problems with an older boy there. We first found out thar they were bathing together and then playing touching games before going to bed. We told the CAS what our Boy was telling us and they told us there was nothng to worry about it was just to boys acting out and the foster mother was staying in the room until the boys went to sleep.(CAS first told us that our boy was making it up).This older boy was also very aggressive to our boy. Hes been back about 3 mos. now and he has been suspended twice now for hitting kids. We have Childrens Mental Health trying to help us out but we would really like any advice that anyone could give us. We are afraid that the school is going to give up on him or want him on some behavior alternating drug William and Kathy |
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"williamh" wrote in message oups.com... Our boy has recently been returned to us after 9 mo. in foster care. My wife and I have an addiction problem whitch we ars now getting under control with the help of AA. While in foster care there was some problems with an older boy there. We first found out thar they were bathing together and then playing touching games before going to bed. We told the CAS what our Boy was telling us and they told us there was nothng to worry about it was just to boys acting out and the foster mother was staying in the room until the boys went to sleep.(CAS first told us that our boy was making it up).This older boy was also very aggressive to our boy. Hes been back about 3 mos. now and he has been suspended twice now for hitting kids. We have Childrens Mental Health trying to help us out but we would really like any advice that anyone could give us. We are afraid that the school is going to give up on him or want him on some behavior alternating drug William and Kathy Good job taking care of you addiction problems. I hope you take care of them permanently. You don't say how old your son and the other boy are. When a child is removed from his home, this is very traumatic. It could be that this the reason for his problems in school rather than what happened with the other boy. However, you need to get to the bottom of what happened with the other kid, so if there was any type of abuse, it could properly be handled so any long-term problems are minimized. Working with Children's Mental Health is probably the best way to go. Jeff |
child behavior
On Feb 16, 2:01 pm, "Jeff" wrote:
"williamh" wrote in message oups.com... Our boy has recently been returned to us after 9 mo. in foster care. My wife and I have an addiction problem whitch we ars now getting under control with the help of AA. While in foster care there was some problems with an older boy there. We first found out thar they were bathing together and then playing touching games before going to bed. We told the CAS what our Boy was telling us and they told us there was nothng to worry about it was just to boys acting out and the foster mother was staying in the room until the boys went to sleep.(CAS first told us that our boy was making it up).This older boy was also very aggressive to our boy. Hes been back about 3 mos. now and he has been suspended twice now for hitting kids. We have Childrens Mental Health trying to help us out but we would really like any advice that anyone could give us. We are afraid that the school is going to give up on him or want him on some behavior alternating drug William and Kathy Good job taking care of you addiction problems. I hope you take care of them permanently. You don't say how old your son and the other boy are. When a child is removed from his home, this is very traumatic. It could be that this the reason for his problems in school rather than what happened with the other boy. However, you need to get to the bottom of what happened with the other kid, so if there was any type of abuse, it could properly be handled so any long-term problems are minimized. Working with Children's Mental Health is probably the best way to go. Jeff Our son is going to be 6 in May the other Boy is 9. We had a meeting with the school Our son eats lunch by himself because he grabs the other kids snacks and crushes then on the table. When the class is doing crafts he also sits alone for fear that he my injure a child with a pair of scissors.When we talk to him its like he has no idea that he is doing anything wrong or that the kids are afraid of him. My wife does not sleep at night or eat she's starting to look terrible. |
child behavior
On 19 Feb 2007 21:42:39 -0800, "williamh"
wrote: Our son is going to be 6 in May the other Boy is 9. We had a meeting with the school Our son eats lunch by himself because he grabs the other kids snacks and crushes then on the table. When the class is doing crafts he also sits alone for fear that he my injure a child with a pair of scissors.When we talk to him its like he has no idea that he is doing anything wrong or that the kids are afraid of him. My wife does not sleep at night or eat she's starting to look terrible. The usenet is not the place to get answers for this. Have you talked to a social worker, a psychologist, a psychiatrist or any local therapists? There has to have been involvement by your child protective services since he was in foster care, thus you should have contacts to speak with even if you cannot afford private services. When children are in foster care, they often feel abandoned by their parents. No matter what the situation *now,* it is certainly possible that he is acting out to see if you will abandon him again or if you have the will to stay with him and help him. The situation with the other boy *may* be part of it, but it is probably not the whole story. -- Dorothy There is no sound, no cry in all the world that can be heard unless someone listens .. The Outer Limits |
child behavior
Dunno what to tell you except you really need to get this behavior
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