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[email protected] October 12th 07 01:19 PM

Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
 
It looks like there are a lot of deadbeat supporters, enablers, and
deadbeats on this usenet group. This particular thread is not for
those mentioned above. This particular thread is for people that have
advice on how to collect child support, enforcing the child support
order issued by a court of family law, and warning others about a
deadbeat. If you post a negitive comment, it will be deleted, as this
is for the purpose of helping each other out in getting the child
support that is owed collected.

I have a court order for child support, and the absent parent refuses
to pay it. He bounces from job to job, moves from place to place, all
in order to avoid child support. How can these people known as
noncustodial parents get away with, what is in my opinion, child
neglect?
Let's face facts, if the custodial parent decided that they were not
going to financially support the children, CPS would get involved as
fast as they could to remove the child on the grounds of neglect.
There are billions owed in child support across the united states, and
more than 75% of the court orders go without enforcement because the
laws that dictate child support vary from state to state. I hate the
term "deadbeat", but when you have a child, and refuse to financially
support the child, that's what a person becomes.
There is no excuse to not support your children, and there is no
excuse to not be involved, because one parent can not keep another
parent from the child. Sure the custodial parent can say "No you can't
see your child", but (when there is no court order as to visitation)
if the absent parent really did want to be involved they also would
have requested visitation through the courts, just as the custodial
parent requested child support.

If anybody has advice on how to collect child support when the absent
parent doesn't pay willfully, your comments are welcomed.


[email protected] October 12th 07 02:39 PM

Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
 
On Oct 12, 8:19 am, wrote:

If anybody has advice on how to collect child support when the absent
parent doesn't pay willfully, your comments are welcomed.


We can't give you legal advice...that would be the unauthorized
practice of law, which constitutes a crime in every state except
Arizona.


Shadow36 October 12th 07 02:42 PM

Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
 

wrote in message
ps.com...
It looks like there are a lot of deadbeat supporters, enablers, and
deadbeats on this usenet group. This particular thread is not for
those mentioned above. This particular thread is for people that have
advice on how to collect child support, enforcing the child support
order issued by a court of family law, and warning others about a
deadbeat. If you post a negitive comment, it will be deleted, as this


Another alias. Unbelievable. Also, you cannot delete posts from here.



Gini October 12th 07 03:03 PM

Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
 

"Shadow36" wrote

wrote
It looks like there are a lot of deadbeat supporters, enablers, and
deadbeats on this usenet group. This particular thread is not for
those mentioned above. This particular thread is for people that have
advice on how to collect child support, enforcing the child support
order issued by a court of family law, and warning others about a
deadbeat. If you post a negitive comment, it will be deleted, as this


Another alias. Unbelievable. Also, you cannot delete posts from here.

==
Heh...She's not the sharpest tool in the shed, is she?



teachrmama October 12th 07 03:04 PM

Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
 

wrote in message
ps.com...
It looks like there are a lot of deadbeat supporters, enablers, and
deadbeats on this usenet group. This particular thread is not for
those mentioned above. This particular thread is for people that have
advice on how to collect child support, enforcing the child support
order issued by a court of family law, and warning others about a
deadbeat. If you post a negitive comment, it will be deleted, as this
is for the purpose of helping each other out in getting the child
support that is owed collected.

I have a court order for child support, and the absent parent refuses
to pay it. He bounces from job to job, moves from place to place, all
in order to avoid child support. How can these people known as
noncustodial parents get away with, what is in my opinion, child
neglect?
Let's face facts, if the custodial parent decided that they were not
going to financially support the children, CPS would get involved as
fast as they could to remove the child on the grounds of neglect.
There are billions owed in child support across the united states, and
more than 75% of the court orders go without enforcement because the
laws that dictate child support vary from state to state. I hate the
term "deadbeat", but when you have a child, and refuse to financially
support the child, that's what a person becomes.
There is no excuse to not support your children, and there is no
excuse to not be involved, because one parent can not keep another
parent from the child. Sure the custodial parent can say "No you can't
see your child", but (when there is no court order as to visitation)
if the absent parent really did want to be involved they also would
have requested visitation through the courts, just as the custodial
parent requested child support.

If anybody has advice on how to collect child support when the absent
parent doesn't pay willfully, your comments are welcomed.


Have you looked into how CSE really works? It costs money to chase true
deadbeats--it's easier to collect each month from those that would pay
anyway and "clain" to have collected from deadbeats. Then you numbers look
really good, so the system that pays your salary is coontinually funded--and
the real deadbeats--the ones that are never going to pay no matter what you
do--are still out running around. You don't really think the system cares,
do you?




Illiana October 12th 07 03:04 PM

Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
 
Shadow36 wrote:
It looks like there are a lot of deadbeat supporters, enablers, and
deadbeats on this usenet group. This particular thread is not for
those mentioned above. This particular thread is for people that have
advice on how to collect child support, enforcing the child support
order issued by a court of family law, and warning others about a
deadbeat. If you post a negitive comment, it will be deleted, as this


Another alias. Unbelievable. Also, you cannot delete posts from here.


I do not know what you are talking about. Do you have any useful advice? If
not, please move along.


Illiana October 12th 07 03:06 PM

Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
 
wrote:
On Oct 12, 8:19 am, wrote:

If anybody has advice on how to collect child support when the absent
parent doesn't pay willfully, your comments are welcomed.


We can't give you legal advice...that would be the unauthorized
practice of law, which constitutes a crime in every state except
Arizona.


Do you have any advice from one person to another?


Illiana October 12th 07 03:10 PM

Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
 
Gini wrote:
It looks like there are a lot of deadbeat supporters, enablers, and
deadbeats on this usenet group. This particular thread is not for

[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]

Another alias. Unbelievable. Also, you cannot delete posts from here.

==
Heh...She's not the sharpest tool in the shed, is she?


WTF? Do you have any ADVICE on how to collect child support? If not, please
move along. I will not play into your attempts to change the subject.


Illiana October 12th 07 03:14 PM

Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
 
teachrmama wrote:
It looks like there are a lot of deadbeat supporters, enablers, and
deadbeats on this usenet group. This particular thread is not for

[quoted text clipped - 28 lines]
If anybody has advice on how to collect child support when the absent
parent doesn't pay willfully, your comments are welcomed.


Have you looked into how CSE really works? It costs money to chase true
deadbeats--it's easier to collect each month from those that would pay
anyway and "clain" to have collected from deadbeats. Then you numbers look
really good, so the system that pays your salary is coontinually funded--and
the real deadbeats--the ones that are never going to pay no matter what you
do--are still out running around. You don't really think the system cares,
do you?

Do you have any useful advice? If not, please move along. This post is not to
bash custodial parents, child support orders, or the government.


Gini October 12th 07 03:47 PM

Does anybody have any useful advice on how to collect a child support debt?
 

"Illiana" wrote in message news:79953cb557fc3@uwe...
Gini wrote:
It looks like there are a lot of deadbeat supporters, enablers, and
deadbeats on this usenet group. This particular thread is not for

[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]

Another alias. Unbelievable. Also, you cannot delete posts from here.

==
Heh...She's not the sharpest tool in the shed, is she?


WTF? Do you have any ADVICE on how to collect child support? If not,
please
move along.

==
I was here first :-)
==
I will not play into your attempts to change the subject.

==
LOL, then I guess you are finished here. This group is for NCPs who have
child support issues. I
guess you're new to usenet. You might want to educate yourself on usenet
etiquette before
barging into a group you know nothing about and making a total fool of
yourself. BTW, why did you
have kids you can't afford? If you didn't want to take care of them, you
should have put them up for
adoption. Why don't you quit whining about how hard you have it and make
yourself more employable?




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