"Karen O'Mara" wrote in message
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"PBSL" wrote in message
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That's very difficult for me , I have a problem opening up.
it's been suggested many times, and I don't seem to get far
and it's not from lack of effort either.

(sorry to barge in here).

Don't be, I'm glad you did.

... I think counseling is really finding the
right connection.

aint that the truth.I'ts good to hear that I'm not the only one

My daughter is very ANTI counseling because I think
I've shoved so much of it her direction throughout her early life and
now she refuses it outright... but now is talking to a
dietician/nutritionist at Kaiser about facts and feelings. (My
daughter is battling borderline anorexia). This person is not called a
"counselor" which is turn-off for my daughter, yet it seems she's
really found a good connection. Sorry to ramble off on a linear
tangent, but I thought the example would be a good one.

I'm glad to hear that the healing process is unhindered for now.
Good luck in the future


From your posts, I think you could open up to someone. Finding the
right counselor may take a few attempts.

Karen

It's easier for me to "open up" in this semi-anonymous arena
we call usenet. But face to face is entirely another matter.
I seem to be getting a lot of indirect help and support online
and I'll continue to "take" as much as I can get.

Thanks Karen