Nope. My third high-needs wore me out. There is no way I would have another.
However, it doesn't mean that a 4th would be that way, just like your other
two and my other two are not the same.
--
Sue (mom to three girls)

"MarieD" wrote in message ...
If you had a high-needs baby, and went on to have more children, were any
of them high-needs also? I had two who weren't high-needs, then my third
was high-needs. I think that scares me most about having another baby. I'm
not pregnant but I am thinking about it, but I'm just really scared. My
third baby was so hard for me and I had a nice two/three year depression
while dealing with her. She's 6.5 now and the main reason I've not had
more is because I worry about going through that again. If I did decide to
get pregnant(and it actually work, I'm older and it took a year last
time), it would be at least a year from now, after the economy is better
and dh's job is stable again.

--
Marie
~The test of courage comes when we are in the minority. The test of
tolerance comes when we are in the majority.~
Ralph W. Sockman