We just used luck & withdrawal and sometimes condoms, if we had time.
I really wasn't too concerned about being pregnant again though. I too
asked my Dr. for a diaphragm when I was slightly interested in sex, but
he wouldn't.

I might consider an IUD this time around, because we may be finished
having kids but might have another one in hopes of a boy... The
husband will get snipped eventually, despite his claims.

KR