CHRISTMAS VISITATION APPROACHING...If you anticipate problems getting your
court ordered visitation see your lawyer NOW to have papers prepared .
Inform your ex in writing with return receipt when you will be picking up
the children. Take along a witness (not your girlfriend or new wife), take
along a video recorder for the witness to record the exchange. Where legal
have a pocket voice recorder in your jacket turned on. If the ex refuses to
allow visitation file a police report immediately. DO NOT yell or threaten,
let her do that on video and immediately serve her your already prepared
motion to hold her in contempt. In some states visitation denial is a
criminal offense. Insist she be charged. Go to the prosecutor or news media
if necessary claiming men are being discriminated against by the
prosecutor's not enforcing state laws. Cops don't like to get involved but
MUST if denial/interference is a criminal offense. Regardless, make sure a
written police report of your complaint is kept on file by the police. DO
NOT ARGUE IN FRONT OF YOUR KIDS (EVER). BE CALM. Is the ex is violating a
court order that specifically spells out your visitation schedule, leaving
no ambiguity, she should be held responsible for payment of your attorney
fees. If your order is not specific, get a new lawyer. The TV media would
love to film a story about kids being emotionally abused by not being
allowed to see their father for Christmas and local authorities standing by
,not protecting the kids!!!! Set it up in advance! Keep a copy of the tape
for use in court. More free tactics are at http://www.fathersrights.org