"Stepdad1963" wrote in message
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I don't feel that I have changed at all and I have some difficulty
accepting
that (after 10 years) I now should sit back and just accept whatever Mom
feels is appropriate for the kids. So far, I haven't. This is creating a
lot of fighting between my wife and I. She feels that I am way too strict
and I feel she is too soft. We tend to have opposing views on everything
when it comes to the kids. We need to find a happy medium but it is not
happening. It's the only thing we fight about by the way.


The problem may be that after 10 years, things have changed and you haven't.
Maybe some counseling? It's hard to accept and I hope things get better.