Beliavsky wrote in

oups.com:

I think children with educated and caring SAHM moms who
never go to day care or preschool can do just as well as
kids who attend them. I don't think I have asserted that
day care and preschool cause cognitive *deficiencies*, I am
just questioning that they have cognitive *benefits*,
especially lasting ones, for kids with good mothers at
home.

yeah, well, the NH ChildFind services disagree with you.
apparently they felt strongly enough that i should put my 3
year old into their DD preschool that they threatened me with
removing him from my home if i did not. the reason they gave?
he needed peer group involvement & i was "overly involved"
with him.
yeaaaaah.
i enrolled him in a private preschool. not a damn thing they
could do then.
lee who refused to let them label him either