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Old May 25th 04, 05:58 PM
P.Fritz
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Default How can I prosecute Child Stealing / Custodial Interference (CAL PC 278.5)


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I found this post very interesting. But I would like to make a few
comments:

1. Most police do not to get involved in this type of problem because
child custody is a matter handled by a civil court. And intent in
creating a police agency is to deal with criminal matters. If
parents can not get along and follow the parenting agreement...it is a
civil matter that eventually gets sent back in front of the Family
Court.


Violating a custody order and moving a child across state lines is a FELONY
in Mich. I would be surprised if it were not a criminal staute in Ca. as
well.


2. Even if you can find an officer that will write up a rpt under
section 278.5...it will not go any where unless the D.A.'s office will
"issue" on it. Now we're in the realm of "Can I win this case, (Hell,
"Can I even get this in front of a judge") and is it worth my time to
try"? Most D.A.'s case loads are so full they only want to issue on a
case if they feel they have a chance of winning...else it is all just
a waste of time.

3. I believe the intent of 278.5 PC was to prosecute "Parental Child
Abduction". It was not intended to deal with a parent that plays the
"Johnny does not feel well enough to go with you today!" crap. It
was/is for the parent the takes the child (usually out of
county/state/country and permentantly tries to keep the child away.


Most such laws have a time period specified......over 24 hr, 48 hrs etc.


Before you think about asking a police officer to take a rpt for
"visitation interference" call your D.A.'s office and see if they
would issue on that type of case. If they won't, you are just wasting
your time talking with the officer. Remember it is not the officers
fault...if the DA's office will not "issue", the rpt is just wasted
paper. And believe me....with the divorce rate so high in the law
enforcement field, there are many police officers in the same boat.
They really can feel your pain...they just can't do anything about it.


You must have the officer file, because no complaint can be issued against a
DA for refusing to prosecute. One of the tricks to successfully pursuing
such action is to have all the i's dotted and the t's crossed.



On Tue, 25 May 2004 07:22:55 -0500, Beverly
wrote:

A few things come to mind as I follow this thread.

1. There are many laws on the books in every state that are never
prosecuted. Some are antiquated (i.e. having to do with horse and
buggy days) and some have alternative methods that have come about in
later law for resolution. Yours sounds like the latter. Police
seldom move on things that can be handled without police intervention.

2. Even though you and your ex do not share a domicile, the case is
domestic. Many officers are loathe to get involved in domestic
disputes, and don't as a policy unless a life is in danger, as they
can be more hairy than other crimes.

3. Many crimes are not a crime which causes active investigation.
The police may have had what is called a "bench warrant" issued and,
basically, in order to be arrested, the criminal must be caught doing
something else. This can be as simple as a traffic stop, but
nonetheless is going to require another event for action. Just so you
know, this "other event" could be the criminal turning him/herself in,
so you may want to see if a bench warrant has been issued and, if so,
inform your ex that "they are looking for her." A semi-responsible
person with a child will turn themselves in if only to avoid the
necessity of bail/a night in jail so as they can make sure the state
never gets their child.

4. Beware. Taking the child out of state temporarily, causing one
missed visitation, may likely be laughed out of court, criminally and
civilly. It depends on the third parties involved. You may build a
better case tape recording your ex telling you how frivolously she
discounts your child's need for you. Documenting missed vistations
carefully, to include the reason given. The civil courts may view an
arrest of an ex-spouse as a feeble-hearted attempt to change custody
without them (the civil court) and will be angered in the process.

On Tue, 25 May 2004 03:29:26 GMT, JR wrote:

Hi Barry,

I've actually got the same "fixed schedule" order that you have (1-3-5
weekends). That's why I'm asking about criminal prosecution under Cal
PC 728.5. There's really no way our order can be mis-interpreted. The
date, time, place, of our custody transfers are clearly stated in the
order (it took a LONG time to get the order to that point). Despite
this, mom repeatedly thumbs her nose at me and the court to the
detriment of an innocent little girl (and me, her father).

Yes, I filed the OSC Contempt papers this morning and they should be
served on Mom by Tuesday or Wednesday. The arraignment is set for July
6th. But like I said, Civil Contempt was unsuccessful before, so I'm
looking for a way to convince law enforcement to, er, enforce the law!!

When I discovered Cal Penal Code 278.5 via the post I pasted below, I
thought, "THIS IS IT! THERE IS A LAW SHE IS BREAKING!" But now that
I've filed the report, I'm kind of stalled.

Trouble is I know that my police report was taken not because the police
intended to do a real investigation, but only to get me out of the
substation; to go away. I want to know how to get the police to follow
up, verify that the orders are valid, locate and question the criminal,
and arrest her upon verifying that statute 278.5 was violated.

I was hoping this "two-pronged" approach (civil contempt + criminal
case) might yield better results. I'm hopeful about the contempt, but I
want to keep the criminal side moving.

There was another guy in the substation reporting a stolen car while I
was trying to get my stolen child report filed. The officer seemed so
much more willing to take the stolen car report, I guess because he
understood the crime. But what if the guy who had his car stolen on
Friday found out that the thief had returned the car, slightly damaged,
on Monday? Wouldn't it still be a crime? My daughter will never get
this weekend with her dad back. The message sent to her by her mom,
that it's ok to ignore dad and take the law into your own hands, is
emotionally and psychologically damaging to her! Ok, enough of my
tortured kid=car metaphor, but a kid is more important than a car, yet I
can't get the police to act on this!

Anyway, thanks a lot for responding Barry. The initial lack of
responses was beginning to make me doubt myself. But I'm beginning to
see that I'm in uncharted territory here.

Jay R.

wrote:
In alt.child-support JR wrote:
: Hello,

: How do I prosecute my ex-girlfriend for Custodial Interference in
: California? I've taken some steps and have a criminal case number
: assigned, but what are the next steps I need to take to get her

charged?
: I believe that if she left the state (and I believe she did), this

is
: a felony.

I've been through this situation a lot.

The problem is the lack of clarity with the custody order regarding
when parenting time will occur. I told our custody mediator my

problems
with Custodial Interference. He wrote the custody order using "fixed
schedule parenting time.". It's clearly stated that I'll have him on
the first, third, and fifth (if there is a fifth) weekend of the month
plus Thursday afternoons (between defined hours at a minimum) on even
weeks. This is better than "every other weekend" because one can

always
look at a calendar and see if it's the first, third or fifth weekend
vs. quibbling over "what was an every other week". Additionally, the
order states that **any deviation of the schedule has to be mutually
agreed upon in writing***. Also, if the child is "ill", a doctor's

note
is required to delay parenting time (she played that game also).

You need to pursue a contempt citation. However, the result would

probably
be the same for you as last time (not clear as a result of swapping

days,
etc.).

I would advise you to file a motion to revise your custody order.

Make it
clear which days of the week you'll be with your child and what times.
Make it clear that any deviation HAS to be in writing and signed by

both
of you or an email must be sent and a reply given by you defining the
change in parenting time. If you can afford it, get legal help from

an
attorney to draft the Custody Order modification. Also, I'll note

that
I've used the "dial a lawyer" attorneys available from
www.nolo.com
and
have been pleased with their service and the low cost.

Good luck. Get a clear custody order and stick to it. No deviations

that
are outside of the order. If you do, that demonstrates you are

"flexible"
and you can now see that your situation can be taken advantage of by
the ex.

barry