I would either take the baby and your mom with you. Your mom could take
the
baby for a stroller ride etc. etc. Or I would send your mom with Kaylie
and
stay home with the boys.

I think that's what Im going to do - stay home with the boys. I talked to
her and my husband about it again this morning and they agreed that was
probably best. He said he would video tape the entire performance and he'll
have the phone with him so I can call her and wish her good luck and then
congrats afterwards. It just seems easier and I know she will have other
performances that I will make it to. Im still sad about missing it but I
guess I need to do what's easiest on Xander right now (and me!)

Thanks

Kari