"Ian" wrote in message
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I don't think this is true at all. I have one child and have A LOT more
time, energy, financial resources, couple time than my friends with more
kids. The more kids you have the more work it will be. Thats why we made
the
decision to have one. You arent telling me that someone with 4 kids has as
much free time as me?

Actually I know plenty of moms with "lots" of kids who have more free time
then moms of 1 or 2. Moms of more tend to be more organized for one thing.
We don't think we have to entertain baby 24/7. My kids have siblings for
that