In article , Clisby says...
There's a (perhaps apocryphal) story about a 90-year-old man whose
parents had brought him to Charleston as an infant. He was a succssful
businessman and civic leader. At his funeral, the minister's glowing
eulogy began, "Although he was not one of us ..."

My bet it's apocryphal. Because, as a miltary kid, I heard that story (told by
a military parent always) about just about everywhere we lived.

Banty