If you had a high-needs baby, and went on to have more children, were any of
them high-needs also? I had two who weren't high-needs, then my third was
high-needs. I think that scares me most about having another baby. I'm not
pregnant but I am thinking about it, but I'm just really scared. My third
baby was so hard for me and I had a nice two/three year depression while
dealing with her. She's 6.5 now and the main reason I've not had more is
because I worry about going through that again. If I did decide to get
pregnant(and it actually work, I'm older and it took a year last time), it
would be at least a year from now, after the economy is better and dh's job
is stable again.

--
Marie
~The test of courage comes when we are in the minority. The test of
tolerance comes when we are in the majority.~
Ralph W. Sockman