S.B.A. wrote:
|| Does a husband have the right to sex simply because he is married to
|| his wife and vice versa ?

'The right'? No, one does not have the right to anyones body. But it usually
part of a healthy marriage/relationship.

||
|| What if one wants it and the other doesn't ?
|| Should the un-willing partner be left alone while
|| the other goes to do whatever, or does he/she give
|| in because they love their spouse so much they want
|| to make him/her happy ?

In a healthy relationship the partner that has been turned down should care
enough about their partner to respect that the other is not in the mood.
This becomes extremely important in pregnancy when the woman is going
through so many changes emotionally and physically. At times it becomes
very difficult to engage in any sexually activity when all one can think of
is keeping their dinner down or their eyes open. I am not saying that one
should not make an effort to engage in some kind of sexually activity during
the nine months but both parties need a level of understanding. Being
intimate is a two way street and if that is not nurtured, I believe, it is a
recipe for disaster.

Just my 2 cents!

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Jenn
-DS Feb'92
-DD Feb'97
-35 weeks!