"Soprano" wrote in message
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Relayer wrote:
On Jul 25, 11:59?pm, Soprano wrote:
teachrmama wrote:
"Soprano" wrote in message
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teachrmama wrote:
"Soprano" wrote in message
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Gini wrote:
"Soprano" wrote
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It was a man who advised me to file for child support for my
daughter.
A man who used to run the system.
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You do know the real reason they badger you to file, right?
His Grace was not badgering me, His Grace cares about me and knows
my
circumstances, which I have not made public in this group. I am
willing
to share with you in email if you promise personal confidentiality.
I'm not certain what you wish to accomplish via email. I read the
link
that Relayer posted. Have you considered getting some counseling to
help
you through this obviously difficult time?
I have a psychologist, a psychiatrist, and a priest. And AA and
Al-Anon. I
am solely in this group to deal with child support.
Oh, but surely you know that you cannot compartementalize your life.
Child
support is tied to your relationship with your ex which is tied to
AA/Alanon, which is tied to family of origin which ist tied to you as
a
mother which is tied to your mother as a mother and so on and so on
and so
on. I am not criticizing you, Soprano. I don't know you. Do you
have a
sponsor?
Yes. The best sponsor in my county. I called her this morning. And I
write in the AA group as you know and belong to a home group with
service commitments and many friends. Thank you for your care.- Hide
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Just a side note. If your husband is alcohilcs and you are in
recovery, it's probably best you keep your contact with him to a
minimum.

I know that. I have daily contact with him. I have to call him right now
to ask him to pick up our daughter from summer camp this evening. Pray
for our family.

The one in need of prayer is YOU. You need wisdom to realize the folly of
your ways.