Help! Married with Children
In a few years, I would love to graduate to a motorhome, but hubby is
reluctant to drive one, lol.
Yep, if you have any sleep problems with kids, then take them camping ;o)
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Sue
mom to three girls
dejablues wrote in message
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We did the tent thing for a couple years, then a 16-ft camper, then
finally
a couple years ago we got a used 30-ft motorhome, which DH refurbished. I
agree, it is so much fun to go to different places, and camping is ideal
for
small kids, you can pack up and take all their favorite stuff, and they
get
so tired out during the day that they sleep like logs at night! Even with
babies it was not too much trouble. We even take the dog LOL.
Kids love adventures, and the planning and packing and getting there is
half
the fun!
"Sue" wrote in message
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We love camping. We used to have the tent, but this year we were able to
buy
a pop-up camper. It has been so much fun to go camping at various
places.
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Sue
mom to three girls
dejablues wrote in message
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Camping with small kids is great fun (tent is ok but a camper or RV is
nicer!), and could be combined with whitewater rafting trips. That was
the
whole family could be together, go for a hike or whatever,and dad can
get
in
a little rafting too.
"Sue" wrote in message
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John wrote in message
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Help! Married with Children
Shortly after becoming a whitewater addict, I got married and now
have
two very young kids. My time on the water has been limited. My
wife
is a non-boater and the majority of our marital discord has
revolved
around river trips. She resents being left alone to care for the
kids, drive shuttles, etc.
It's okay to have a hobby. My husband's passion is golf. However, my
husband
learned a long time ago that he is not going to be able to devote
all
of
his
free time for his hobby. We have three kids and they are very close
togethter in age. I am not one of those wives who has to have their
husband
with them all the time and rather enjoy when my husband does go on
trips
or
golf outings. I enjoy being on my own. However, I suspect that your
wife
isn't being allowed to have any free time on her own. Do you keep
the
kids
on a weekend day so she can go and do what she likes? Can you
somehow
get
your kids involved in your hobby. Most kids love the water and if
you
can
somehow incorporate them (and your wife if she is interested) then
perhaps
she can have some time to pursue her hobby. Talk with your wife and
see
how
she is feeling. If she needs some time on her own, then give that to
her
and
she might like your hobby better. If she is just being unreasonable
and
wants all of your time, then she needs to compromise. Good luck.
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Sue
mom to three girls
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