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Old April 26th 07, 08:12 AM posted to alt.support.single-parents
Bev
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Default When to let kids meet new girlfriend

On Apr 24, 7:28�pm, 'Kate wrote:
On Mon, 23 Apr 2007 21:35:54 -0700, Bev wrote for all to see:





On Apr 23, 11:08�pm, "Strutter" wrote:
"'Kate" wrote in message


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On Mon, 23 Apr 2007 18:36:31 -0500, Strutter wrote for all to see:


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I also pay $8K/year in child support and another $6K/year in
traveling expenses to be with my daughter. *My 39 year old ex wife
introducing her 25 year old boyfriends to my daughter just rubs me the wrong
way a little. *Especially since those relationships don't seem to be lasting
too long.


Ya know......I thought you were thinking of your daughter when you
posted about your ex's introducing her b/f's to the child. Now I see
why your shorts are really in a knot. 8K a year in CS and 6K a year in
traveling expenses does not make up for the limited amount of time you
are spending with your child.Move closer, you can spend more time with
your daughter ,save your 6K in traveling expenses,mind your own
business about who your Ex is dating and you might feel better.


:-D

Yeah... I know. I asked the question he least wanted to answer. He got
defensive and threw the money up as a "smokescreen".

Transparent, huh?

Hugs,
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I thought so, None of that that he says up there had any relevence to
the subject of "When to introduce your children to your new
girlfriend" The money crap the age of his ex's boytoys...ya know...if
it were a man dating younger women there would be no issue! But I
agree it is obvious the OP does care for his daughter, he just needs
to focus more on that, get closer and spend more time with
her ....that is going to help a great deal.