Becca wrote:
I am in a graduate school program and am conducting research on the
extracurricular activities that your sons participate in

I don't think so.

You use a throwaway account and provide no evidence (not here, and not
on the surveymonkey survey start page) that what you say is true.
What school? Who is your advisor? Has this survey been cleared by
your school's human subjects research oversight committee?

Pologirl