On Mon, 16 Feb 2004 20:29:18 EST, (beeswing) wrote:

Still would like it if people could weigh in on this issue. Were the
choices I made OK? I was really clueless how to handle this, especially
given the unwanted pressure.

It sounds to me like you handled it well, especially given the
completely intrusive behavior from the other parent. I'd drop the
topic, including not buying other non-bra styles of underwear, until a
time when your daughter brings it up.

I hope the other mother has the good sense to back off and mind her own
damned business.