"Circe" ) writes:
I think
you should at least try an IUD before you decide that surgically altering
your husband against his wishes is your preferred method of birth control.

I disagree. I don't think she's under any more obligation
to modify her body (with IUD, pills, or whatever) than is
her husband. And she has a right to have a preference, whether
or not he agrees or chooses it.