"Circe" ) writes:
I agree. But the decision DOES have to be mutual, which is all I've been
trying to say. If her husband can't get over being bothered by having his
testicles surgically altered but she somehow manages to bully him into doing
it, it wasn't a mutual decision.

And if she gets bullied into taking pills or getting a tubal,
it wasn't a mutual decision either and not good for the marriage either.