On Mar 5, 12:52 am, "dragonsgirl" wrote:
"Greegor" wrote in message

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What you need to do now is to think differently. Try to think from
outside of the current situation and you'll see the entire situation
from an entirely different perspective.

Is it healthy for a kid to think that parents
should come around to their "perspective"?

Isn't this how to build a better narcissistic monster?

You can build one, if you so desire,

By doing a lot of crap that is EXTRANIOUS to the point...

BUT, If your child STOLE A BIKE how much of this
(child's point of view) crap would you do BETTY?

This (child's point of view) stuff can be good but
too much of it just makes the parent a SUCKER
asking to be MANIPULATED.

by ignoring your child, by refusing
your child affection, by showing your child that they are not a priority to
you. You can press your own abusive nature upon them, whether it be
physcial, emotional, or mental abuse. You can make sure that your child
knows that nothing they do is good enough, and never will be. You can bring
out jealousy in your child by favoring another over them, and you can show
them, by example, how to refuse to admit when they are wrong and take
responsibility for their actions.

I know how this works. I was married to a narcissist.

You were his TROPHY WIFE??? ROFL!

This is how he was
raised, and given his choice, this is how he would raise his children.

Yet ANOTHER in your pantheon of
(every other family member but yourself is defective)?

The list goes on and on doesn't it BETTY?

how to refuse to admit when they are wrong and take
responsibility for their actions.

Doesn't that usually involve blaming everybody else in their
entire family and life for every problem BETTY?

Isn't that what you keep doing with this stuff about
how you are a GEM plucked from the manure pit of
your family by Child Protection???