Jamie Clark wrote:

don't. If you aren't ready and willing to cut her out, then you have to
accept her for who she is, take the good and not fret about the rest. If
there is no good, then I don't know why you wouldn't be ready to cut her out
of your life But it sounds to me like there is some good to her and the
relationship, or you wouldn't want to be calling her still.

Good luck.

Yes, there is still some good, just that the bad makes the good fade in
comparison. I'll try to bite my tongue, too. :-/