Marie wrote:

...when people try to "label" your twins as "the good one" and "the
demanding one," or terms to that effect?


My mom's pat answer was something on the "right now, one is giving me a
bad day; it will change soon."

Cindy Wells
(whose mom realized that often it was time/place/situation that
altered her mood about our behavior. The behavior often didn't
change (over a given day).)
TIA

Marie
Chris and Alex--born 04/23/03 at 31wks gestational :-)
Meet the Kidlets at http://ca.f1.pg.photos.yahoo.com/mmcw2