"Rosalie B." wrote in message
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A person who is out of control doesn't act responsibly - they will not be
asking
themselves whether there is a 'need' for their actions.

People seem to have more of a problem with someone who does something in a
rage
and completely overdoes it than with someone who just does enough to win.
For
instance (to use a grisly example) - someone who stabs someone and kills
them is
just a murderer, but if they stab someone 45 times after they are already
dead,
then that is a heinous crime. But really I think there should be more
sympathy
and help for the out of control person.


He absolutely has a problem controlling rage. What to do about that is the
question. It certainly isn't acceptable, especially if he were an adult, so
we must rein it in now.