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Old April 24th 07, 11:14 PM posted to alt.support.single-parents
Strutter
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Default When to let kids meet new girlfriend

"xkatx" wrote in message
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"Strutter" wrote in message
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Excuse me if this question has been asked before, but when is the
appropriate time to let children meet a person you are dating? My ex and
I have some disagreements about this. I feel that I should be in a
relationship long enough to know that it has the potential to be lasting
before I subject my daughter (6 years old) to meeting the person I am
dating. I don't believe that my daughter should be exposed to every
person I go out with, or her mother, just for a matter of convenience.
My ex wife has dated three different guys over the past five months, and
now my ex is with someone new again. I asked her to please give her
relationships time before having the person around my daughter, but the
new guy is already wanting to go to my daughter's T-Ball games, etc. Am
I crazy for thinking that it's unfair to my daughter to be exposed to
these guys so quickly? Am I unreasonable thinking that my ex should wait
six months or whatever amount of time it takes to see if the relationship
will turn serious?


I just noticed this... You put the subject as "When to let kids meet new
girlfriend" yet is this about your girlfriend? Is your ex a lesbian?
We've had a few topics lately on here about bi and heck, I think there was
even a mention or three about quad-gendered or something.


I was typing quickly and meant to use "girlfriend/boyfriend." Little bit
angry aren't you.

Does your ex date lesbian males who get what they want from her then leave?
I'm a bit of a Confusedasaurus Rex.


You don't have to be ****ed at me because of whatever happened to you. I'm
a good father and a good person.