On Mon, 11 Aug 2003 13:58:12 -0400, "Stephanie and Tim"
wrote:

The other issue I have is with hauling him around by his limbs. Picture an
example in which DH is trying to get DS to go with him to bathtime. He gives
him the 5 and 2 minute warning. Then asks DS to come for bathtime. When DS
does not come, he repeats and whatnot. All of this is exactly the same as I
would do. But what he does when noncompliance continues is takes him by the
hand and physically lifts him by one arm! And carries him that way! I think
this is rotten on a couple of levels:

- He could pull DS's arm right out if its socket. DH thinks that the fact
that it has not happened yet means it is not going to. (DDDUHHHHHHH)


I would put my foot down on this one.

You can show him some of the literature or have you pediatrician talk
to him about it. It's the elbow that goes more frequently than the
shoulder, btw. And long term damage does make it more likely that
he will have problems with his joints as an adult if this continues.


http://www.lpch.org/DiseaseHealthInf...s/nmelbow.html


What is nursemaid's elbow?
Nursemaid's elbow occurs when the radius (one of the bones in the
forearm) slips out of place from where it normally attaches to the
elbow joint. It is a common condition in children younger than 4 years
of age. It is also called pulled elbow, slipped elbow, or toddler
elbow. The medical term for nursemaid's elbow is radial head
subluxation.

What causes nursemaid's elbow?
A sudden pulling or traction on the hand or forearm causes nursemaid's
elbow. This causes the radius to slip out of the ligament holding it
into the elbow. It can occur when an infant rolls himself or herself
over, from a fall or from pulling, or swinging a young child by the
hand.

What are the symptoms of nursemaid's elbow?
The following are the most common symptoms of nursemaid's elbow.
However, each child may experience symptoms differently. Symptoms may
include:

* immediate pain in the injured arm
* refusal or inability to move the injured arm
* anxiety

The symptoms of nursemaid's elbow may resemble other conditions or
medical problems. Always consult your child's physician for a
diagnosis.

How is nursemaid's elbow diagnosed?
The diagnosis of nursemaid's elbow is made with a physical examination
by your child's physician.

It is important to call your child's physician immediately, or
promptly take your child to the emergency department, if you suspect
an injury.

Treatment for nursemaid's elbow:
Specific treatment for nursemaid's elbow will be determined by your
child's physician based on the following:

* your child's age, overall health, and medical history
* the extent of the condition
* your child's tolerance for specific medications, procedures, or
therapies
* expectations for the course of the condition
* your opinion or preference

Treatment may include:

* acetaminophen (for pain), as directed by your child's physician
* prompt medical treatment while providing reassurance for your
child

The injury can usually be reduced (fixed) by your child's physician
with ease and often without the need for x-rays (unless other type of
injury or fracture is suspected).

Once the elbow has sustained this type of injury, it is more likely to
recur. If this happens again, call your child's physician or return to
the emergency department for further evaluation and treatment. Most
children outgrow the tendency for nursemaid's elbow by the age of 4.

Prevention of nursemaid's elbow:

* Avoid pulling or swinging your child by the arms or hands.
* Avoid lifting your child up by his/her arms or hands.

Consult your child's physician for more information.




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