So you make subjective decisions about what to tell parents about

That's right everyone does.

The
crux of this is not privacy,

I never thought it was about privacy


it's that you see sex as a health and
safety issue and cele sees it as a social issue -- or maybe even a
"public health" issue rather than a moral issue.

None of which changes my view.

I don't see a difference between an assumption that a parent would
react positively and an assumption that a parent would react
negatively.

I certainly see a big difference. It makes a difference of whether or not the
parental role is going to be supported, and that has a big impact on soceity.

Joelle
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Joelle