"Emma" wrote in message
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There will of course be tantrums, but don't pay attention to her
unless she's being good. TANTRUMS ONLY CONTINUE IF THEY'RE EFFECTIVE
FOR THE CHILD.

Agreed, and the OP is digging a deeper hole by giving in to the child's
insisting and tantrums by giving the milky bottles.
I'd rather have a few days of screaming than months of bottle-giving.