And saying that a man just has "to say no to sex" is bull. He does have to
be responsible and use protection at all times, (and remember to take his
pill, but abstinance is certainly not his "only choice".

~AZ~

You might not like the cold hard facts, but even with using birth
control, or even if a man has been snipped (recently), there is STILL
a small chance that the woman could get pregnant. Women that are on
the pill get pregnant every day. Men who wear a condom end up with a
pregnant partner every day. Men who get a vasectomy end up with a
pregnant partner every day.

THE ONLY 100% CHANCE OF NOT HAVING A CHILD IS TO NOT HAVE SEX OR
CONFIRMED STERILIZATION.

Therefore, until the law allows a man to choose abortion or adoption,
or until the law allows a man to walk away from an unwanted pregnancy,
the only way a man can be 100% sure he will never have an unwanted
child (while he is still fertile), or be forced to pay child support
for an unwanted child is for the man "to say no to sex".

Because of the fact that birth control measures do not work 100%, and
because of the fact that the man has zero choice about the birth or
support of the unwanted child, then if he wants to make 100% sure he
is never forced to pay child support, then his only choice is
abstinence or positive sterilization. Unless he gets a vasectomy and
waits the alotted amount of time and has several tests to make sure
his sperm count is 0. So, his choices are 100% confirmed
sterilization, or abstinence.

I'm not saying all men should either be celibate or sterilized. But
if they are sexually active and have not been confirmed 100% sterile,
there is ALWAYS the chance of a pregnancy, of which he will have
absolutely no choice of paying child support for. That is the plain
and simple facts.

So men have three choices on unwanted pregnancies:

Abstinence
Confirmed sterilization
Get the laws changed to allow the man a choice for abortion/adoption
or to just walk away from an unwanted pregnancy.