What's fair with my partner?
You all must be perfect people since you seem to think that it's
possible to find the "perfect" partner.
You are the one that wants the perfect partner and think you can change someone
into that. I'm saying accept a person with their imperfections and if you
can't accept them, look elsewhere.
I'd say your view of training a man into the perfect partner is the
perfectionist view.
Joelle
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