"Bob Whiteside" wrote
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The OP has her own issues and I'm somewhat surprised no one has confronted
her yet. Why is she so concerned about the child's last name when she is
the one who provided the input for the name on the child's birth
certificate? Does she have a different last name from the child? Was she
ever married to the child's father and changed her name, or was she just
another "single mother" who never bothered to marry the child's father?
Is
she trying to avoid her own past and why?
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Well, I think the mother who was whining about her son going to live with
his dad and laid
all kinds of guilt on the child trumps this one as scoundrel mother of the
year.