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Old November 16th 03, 02:15 PM
Tara
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Default 10 ways to be a better father

I grew up without my father-the **** left before I was born. And I must say I
am 100% fine, completely well adjusted and have no problems with the situation.
All these "fatherless" kids will be fine, and if they're not the problem can't
simply be dumped at them having no father-that's a cop out.


"Robert Gautier"

...-elision for brevity-


Continue to strive to be a good role model for your children no
matter what the circumstances. Just try to be the best person you can
be, for their sake and put them above all else.


Sadly when it comes to divorce and separation over 40% of fathers will loose
all contact with their children.
This is not in anyway a deficiency in the fathers. Testimonies abound of how
they have tried against all odds to keep the contact going. Sadly the system
today is geared exclusively to extracting maintenance from them and it is
more often than not abused and manipulated by vindictive mothers for self
serving ends. Eventually this leads to total paternal alienation.

Have you guys not heard of the recent spiderman, batman& robin stunts in
London ?
What do you think they are all about ?

If one cares at all about children's welfare it is high time to start taking
an interest in fathers rights and not continue to dismiss and ridicule them.
In the Western world, one in three marriages end in divorce. Times that by
40% .... That is an awful lot of children who are growing up with no dad to
turn to. What effect do you think that is having on them and what impact
does it hold for future society?