'Kate wrote in message ...
On Tue, 2 Dec 2003 08:50:50 -0500, "Tiffany"

Joelle wrote in message
...
There are, of course, exceptional men and women who shared duties
from
the start or have adopted non-traditional roles by choice.

'Kate

Yeah and where can I meet them??? lol

My husband did more housecleaning than me.

He was older - 35 and had to live on his own and clean his own house.
I
think
that makes a difference.

Being somone that doesn't care if the bathtub gets disinfected every
day
or
even every week, I think Paul has a point about how a lot of women have
higher
standards about housekeeping than men. So they don't give men credit
for
what
they do, or they complain and criticize what they do and so they don't
do
it.

Joelle


That is very true. So many of my friends complain about how the husband
can't clean right or do laundry right. If someone else is cleaning, how
can
it be wrong? lol

When they should be grateful that he ever lifted a finger to do
something to contribute? This may surprise you but some men know darn
well that if they shrink a few sweaters or put something dark in the
white wash a few times, that will be the last time they are ever asked
to do laundry in the house.

'Kate


Maybe you should spank them like kids then. lol

T