Followup...Kid hated the "crop bras." Hated the whole idea. Which is fine with
me, and I told her as much. Told her she didn't really need them and wouldn't
for at least a few years.

They weren't expensive. I told her I'd put them upstairs in her underwear
drawer and if she ever did want them they'd be there. She was fine with that
and went back to watching Lilo and Stitch.

I think this could have been really ugly had they been given to her by a
classmate's mom in front of her classmate.

Still would like it if people could weigh in on this issue. Were the choices I
made OK? I was really clueless how to handle this, especially given the
unwanted pressure.

beeswing