shelly in ok wrote:
: I have been divorced from my four sons father for almost 15 years. In
: this span of time I have not recieved One penny of child support. The
: Judge in our case denied the father visitation. I had no say in the
: matter.So how can a man just walk away from four sons and not ever
: look back? yea they are all his, to many questions.I found out he has
: lived as close as 45 miles fron them and never has he made any attemot
: to see them. Iy makes them feel unwanted. please can anyone help me or
: give me advise. I live in Oklahoma and they are dead beats in CSIF.
:

Perhaps "because the judge denied visitation".

I've read that it's more probable that a father will pay child support
if the father provides an active role in the child's life (I believe it
was in Webster Watnik's book "Child Custody Made Easy".

b.