Obviously" your son's relationship with his father *isn't* more important!
Who are you trying to fool? You sacrificed
your child's right to a father for money that isn't "huge." Sheesh! And you
can't figure out why dad took off?
Your son has a right to be upset!


Just me --

Do not listen to these boobs. Some people here think that no child
support is justified or if it is the obligor can take his sweet time.
OSE is a demon spawn

You were just trying to get his wages garnished. In some states that
is automatic for EVERYONE. It is a much simpler situation. Employers
know that the garnishment does not reflect badly on the employee. And
the money is more likely to come in on a timely basis.

Your ex CHOSE to leave his job rather than allow his check to be
garnished. He CHOSE to quit his job. He CHOSE to move away. This is
a classic situation of a paying parent adopting a lifestyle that
revolves around not paying the child support.

When bad things start happening to him as a result of his non-payment
of child support, then it is everyone else's fault. Remember it takes
6 to 12 months of non-payment for the penalties to really start
flowing. In my state even small payments can stave off those
difficulties for while.

This was HIS choice. I know of NO state that allow a CP to withhold
visitation just because the supportis not paid. He CHOSE to leave the
state.