"hdbabe" wrote in message
lkaboutsupport.com...
Thanks all. Whether the items were left out in the open(they were) or not
is irrelevent. I know that now. But I think the message is the same from
everyone...trust, communication and love are key. I cannot let this bother
me, I have to let it go. Bev your right, we all do have 'things', but after
my divorce, I got rid of a lot. For me it was a way of moving on...let go of
the past.


Nope... not irrelevant actually... If they are out in the open that means
it's all over and they are nothing more than fond memories and you should be
pleased that these people made it possible for him to be the person he is
It also shows he has absolutely nothing to hide from you which says alot
about the confidence he feels in a relationship with you... Congratulations