Wow,

That is a lot to think about. If you start with a vaginal delivery will
you know or feel if things are to difficult or do you not know the
extent of the injury until afterwards?

I'm wondering if you can explain to the doc and just try the vaginal but
switch to a section if you start feeling like things are not going
smoothly. Of course - that depends on if you can actually feel the
injury before/during and not just after.

Best of luck with your decision.

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Nikki