as I said in a previous post I
thought the advice you gave was sound, except for the bit about sending the
girl
to funeral alone.


If you have a different opinion why not just say "Well here's another POV, I
don't think she should go by herself" - why do you need to criticize Kate
because she has different advice than you do?

The whole idea of this ng is to get different opinions, and then people make up
their own minds. It does seem kind of weird that you seemed more interested in
going off on Kate for giving advice that you didn't agree with than giving the
OP your own advice.

Joelle
The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page - St
Augustine
Joelle