"Stephanie" wrote in message
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2. If they ask you not to bring a gift, you don't bring a gift.

That's my opinion.

I agree. There will always be some who don't follow and will bring one
anyway, but don't feel bad if that happens. Offer to bring some food or
beverages if you feel like bringing *something*.

JennP.