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Very odd question
It occured to me this evening that I want to write a Living Will. It sounds
silly but I have a shockingly bad headache with nausea and I always gets scared that I will get hospitalized and my daughter won't be able to get to me. It's just a headache, but sometimes I panic!! Anyway, I wondered if it's possible to nurse while you are comatose, or otherwise "out of it". I mean a) do hospitals even allow that kind of thing but the thing I wonder about is that does the body still do what it's supposed to do if you are in a coma?? Just my Monday night rambling brain on it's trek here. Sorry for the interuption, folks. Now back to regularly scheduled programming! |
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Before you worry about nursing while you are in a coma.....
Along with a "living will"... Do you have an updated plain old will that makes sure your child will be cared for properly - not just leaving money to your child but naming guardians as well as trustees? Do you have powers of attorney for yourself for financial and personal care decisions if you ever become incapacitated? Have you updated the beneficiary line for all your policies, pensions and any other benefits payable on your death to make sure whatever you have goes to helping to raise your child? Do you have a good list of where your important papers are, assets, policies and accounts, keys and boxes are etc. so someone can find things in the event you are incapacitated? Its amazing how many people with kids stay up late worrying about whacky stuff, but don't have the basic legal stuff in place to protect those kids. Mary G, |
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Very odd question
"CY" wrote in message news:jFC_b.2314$Zp.1537@fed1read07...
It occured to me this evening that I want to write a Living Will. It sounds silly but I have a shockingly bad headache with nausea and I always gets scared that I will get hospitalized and my daughter won't be able to get to me. It's just a headache, but sometimes I panic!! Anyway, I wondered if it's possible to nurse while you are comatose, or otherwise "out of it". I mean a) do hospitals even allow that kind of thing but the thing I wonder about is that does the body still do what it's supposed to do if you are in a coma?? yes, it is possible. some hospitals/nurses may balk but it should be considered the same as caring for any other functionof your body. Mothers have had their breasts pumped, or had their baby brought to them. If they don't nurse or have the milk removed, they risk engorgement, mastitis, depression (yes, it's true. cold turkey weaning can be correllated with depression), as well as a prematurely weaned, and traumatised baby. sometimes the staff won't do it because they dont' consider it a priority, but family members can do it or insist on support and having it done. ===== Kate, http://www.cs.colorado.edu/~kolina/a...f-formula.html Mom to Ursula (9!), Sage (6.5), Benno (3!!) Nature's way is straight and unerring, foursquare and calm, great and tolerant. Everything is accomplished without the necessity of fabricated purpose. Man's way is equally self-evident. His internal principles are correct; his external acts are righteous; his results are certain. ~ I Ching (B.C. 1150?) Chinese Book of Changes http://listserv.uts.edu.au/mailman/listinfo/parent-l http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Just-Moms/ :-) |
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Thank you! MY DD is 2 so premature weaning wouldn't be as much of a concern
but I appreciate your input. Also, I love your Advantages of Formula website - I send it to people all the time!! "Kate" wrote in message om... "CY" wrote in message news:jFC_b.2314$Zp.1537@fed1read07... It occured to me this evening that I want to write a Living Will. It sounds silly but I have a shockingly bad headache with nausea and I always gets scared that I will get hospitalized and my daughter won't be able to get to me. It's just a headache, but sometimes I panic!! Anyway, I wondered if it's possible to nurse while you are comatose, or otherwise "out of it". I mean a) do hospitals even allow that kind of thing but the thing I wonder about is that does the body still do what it's supposed to do if you are in a coma?? yes, it is possible. some hospitals/nurses may balk but it should be considered the same as caring for any other functionof your body. Mothers have had their breasts pumped, or had their baby brought to them. If they don't nurse or have the milk removed, they risk engorgement, mastitis, depression (yes, it's true. cold turkey weaning can be correllated with depression), as well as a prematurely weaned, and traumatised baby. sometimes the staff won't do it because they dont' consider it a priority, but family members can do it or insist on support and having it done. ===== Kate, http://www.cs.colorado.edu/~kolina/a...f-formula.html Mom to Ursula (9!), Sage (6.5), Benno (3!!) Nature's way is straight and unerring, foursquare and calm, great and tolerant. Everything is accomplished without the necessity of fabricated purpose. Man's way is equally self-evident. His internal principles are correct; his external acts are righteous; his results are certain. ~ I Ching (B.C. 1150?) Chinese Book of Changes http://listserv.uts.edu.au/mailman/listinfo/parent-l http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Just-Moms/ :-) |
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No to the below, but those things occured to me all at the same time so am
working on all of them this week. Thank you for putting everything in a neat little list for me!! "Mary Gordon" wrote in message om... Before you worry about nursing while you are in a coma..... Along with a "living will"... Do you have an updated plain old will that makes sure your child will be cared for properly - not just leaving money to your child but naming guardians as well as trustees? Do you have powers of attorney for yourself for financial and personal care decisions if you ever become incapacitated? Have you updated the beneficiary line for all your policies, pensions and any other benefits payable on your death to make sure whatever you have goes to helping to raise your child? Do you have a good list of where your important papers are, assets, policies and accounts, keys and boxes are etc. so someone can find things in the event you are incapacitated? Its amazing how many people with kids stay up late worrying about whacky stuff, but don't have the basic legal stuff in place to protect those kids. Mary G, |
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"CY" wrote in message news:wka%b.4353$Zp.2044@fed1read07...
Thank you! MY DD is 2 so premature weaning wouldn't be as much of a concern but I appreciate your input. Also, I love your Advantages of Formula website - I send it to people all the time!! maybe I was sensitive since just the other day a woman in Target asked me what kidn of sippy cup to buy for her 7 mo old. I explained that most could cause premature weaning or a nursing strike so I just used cups and she told me that her son had "weaned" a month prior. I asked if he had a lot of bottles- yes, since 2 weeks old, but had never caused a problem. Yikes. I explained that her son was on a "nursing strike" and refusing the breast before age 1 was a nursing strike or "premature weaning". I couldn't help myself- I found myself unwilling to let that myth lie. :-) I'm glad you like my site. My dh and a friend both have promised to help me figure out how to get the updated version to teh server, yet both seem very busy lately. I really want to get it updated. kate yes, it is possible. some hospitals/nurses may balk but it should be considered the same as caring for any other functionof your body. Mothers have had their breasts pumped, or had their baby brought to them. If they don't nurse or have the milk removed, they risk engorgement, mastitis, depression (yes, it's true. cold turkey weaning can be correllated with depression), as well as a prematurely weaned, and traumatised baby. sometimes the staff won't do it because they dont' consider it a priority, but family members can do it or insist on support and having it done. ===== Kate, http://www.cs.colorado.edu/~kolina/a...f-formula.html Mom to Ursula (9!), Sage (6.5), Benno (3!!) Nature's way is straight and unerring, foursquare and calm, great and tolerant. Everything is accomplished without the necessity of fabricated purpose. Man's way is equally self-evident. His internal principles are correct; his external acts are righteous; his results are certain. ~ I Ching (B.C. 1150?) Chinese Book of Changes http://listserv.uts.edu.au/mailman/listinfo/parent-l http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Just-Moms/ :-) |
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Very odd question
I can help you! I know how to put stuff on websites...let me know if you'd
like help!! "Kate" wrote in message om... "CY" wrote in message news:wka%b.4353$Zp.2044@fed1read07... Thank you! MY DD is 2 so premature weaning wouldn't be as much of a concern but I appreciate your input. Also, I love your Advantages of Formula website - I send it to people all the time!! maybe I was sensitive since just the other day a woman in Target asked me what kidn of sippy cup to buy for her 7 mo old. I explained that most could cause premature weaning or a nursing strike so I just used cups and she told me that her son had "weaned" a month prior. I asked if he had a lot of bottles- yes, since 2 weeks old, but had never caused a problem. Yikes. I explained that her son was on a "nursing strike" and refusing the breast before age 1 was a nursing strike or "premature weaning". I couldn't help myself- I found myself unwilling to let that myth lie. :-) I'm glad you like my site. My dh and a friend both have promised to help me figure out how to get the updated version to teh server, yet both seem very busy lately. I really want to get it updated. kate yes, it is possible. some hospitals/nurses may balk but it should be considered the same as caring for any other functionof your body. Mothers have had their breasts pumped, or had their baby brought to them. If they don't nurse or have the milk removed, they risk engorgement, mastitis, depression (yes, it's true. cold turkey weaning can be correllated with depression), as well as a prematurely weaned, and traumatised baby. sometimes the staff won't do it because they dont' consider it a priority, but family members can do it or insist on support and having it done. ===== Kate, http://www.cs.colorado.edu/~kolina/a...f-formula.html Mom to Ursula (9!), Sage (6.5), Benno (3!!) Nature's way is straight and unerring, foursquare and calm, great and tolerant. Everything is accomplished without the necessity of fabricated purpose. Man's way is equally self-evident. His internal principles are correct; his external acts are righteous; his results are certain. ~ I Ching (B.C. 1150?) Chinese Book of Changes http://listserv.uts.edu.au/mailman/listinfo/parent-l http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Just-Moms/ :-) |
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Very odd question
"CY" wrote in message news:d_S%b.5879$Zp.1073@fed1read07...
I can help you! I know how to put stuff on websites...let me know if you'd like help!! thanks. It's really more to do with locating the editing tools and how to upload to the server. If you lived in Boulder, you could come by and help. :-) ===== Kate, http://www.cs.colorado.edu/~kolina/a...f-formula.html Mom to Ursula (9!), Sage (6.5), Benno (3!!) Power is so characteristically calm, that calmness in itself has the aspect of power. ~Bulwer-Lytton (1803-1873) http://listserv.uts.edu.au/mailman/listinfo/parent-l http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Just-Moms/ :-) |
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