How to stop him?

"Seriously" wrote in message
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DB Wrote:
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You are disgusting. You remind me of the ex I'm currently having
problems with. You want the money, the control, the time with the
kids. What entitles you to all the goodies while he gets pushed
away?--

It's drilled into their heads that the law is on their side, they get
all
the money and tax benefits, and we men get to pay woman because some
how we
men can't care for a child the same as a woman can.

It's a 50's model of man works and pays while woman stays home and
cares for
child.

Did you miss the part where she said that he didn't want anything to do
with the child in the beginning? We aren't talking about some poor man
that started out as a father and just wants to be with his daughter.
When men treat the mother's of their children with the respect and
decentsy that they deserve, they will have an equal partnership.

He didn't get pushed away, he walked away and stayed away. Own up! Be
there! Don't give her a reason to push you away. A mother protecting
her child is a powerful thing.

Typical "men are always wrong" feminist thinking.

When women want men to change they complain men won't change.

When men do change women complain the men have changed.

"Seriously" wrote in message
...

DB Wrote:
--
You are disgusting. You remind me of the ex I'm currently having
problems with. You want the money, the control, the time with the
kids. What entitles you to all the goodies while he gets pushed
away?--

It's drilled into their heads that the law is on their side, they get
all
the money and tax benefits, and we men get to pay woman because some
how we
men can't care for a child the same as a woman can.

It's a 50's model of man works and pays while woman stays home and
cares for
child.

Did you miss the part where she said that he didn't want anything to do
with the child in the beginning? We aren't talking about some poor man
that started out as a father and just wants to be with his daughter.
When men treat the mother's of their children with the respect and
decentsy that they deserve, they will have an equal partnership.

He didn't get pushed away, he walked away and stayed away. Own up! Be
there! Don't give her a reason to push you away. A mother protecting
her child is a powerful thing.

How do you know he walked away? Show me in her post where she said he just
walked away! I can show you in her post where she said he could have found
her if he had searched for her! WHY didn't she file for child support from
day 1? She knew where he was--and he apparently did NOT know where she was.
Why did she wasit 6 long years? Could it possibly have been because she
wanted to establish herself as the one and only parent--thinking that then
she would get 6 years of arrearages plus ongoing child support and not have
to worry about sharing the child with him? She's no saint in all of this
either!

Seriously

"Seriously" wrote in

A mother protecting her child is a powerful thing.

YAwn!

I can see that I'm getting no help or understanding in this
group. I'm done.

http://www.amazon.com/Cooperative-Pa.../dp/1880283263

Educate yourself, best thing you can do for ALL involved.

I'm not so sure I would read a cooperative parenting book writen by a woman.
I can already invision the things being said about how Mom is more important
and Dad should be paying up.

"babscat" wrote in message
oups.com...
I can see that I'm getting no help or understanding in this
group. I'm done.

http://www.amazon.com/Cooperative-Pa.../dp/1880283263

Educate yourself, best thing you can do for ALL involved.



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On Thu, 14 Dec 2006 03:54:53 +0000, Seriously
wrote:


DB Wrote:
--
You are disgusting. You remind me of the ex I'm currently having
problems with. You want the money, the control, the time with the
kids. What entitles you to all the goodies while he gets pushed
away?--

It's drilled into their heads that the law is on their side, they get
all
the money and tax benefits, and we men get to pay woman because some
how we
men can't care for a child the same as a woman can.

It's a 50's model of man works and pays while woman stays home and
cares for
child.

Did you miss the part where she said that he didn't want anything to do
with the child in the beginning? We aren't talking about some poor man
that started out as a father and just wants to be with his daughter.
When men treat the mother's of their children with the respect and
decentsy that they deserve, they will have an equal partnership.

He didn't get pushed away, he walked away and stayed away. Own up! Be
there! Don't give her a reason to push you away. A mother protecting
her child is a powerful thing.

Did you miss the part where she said that she wouldn't have a
relationship with "this asshole"? That sounds a bit more like pushing
away than walking away to me. Of course that didn't stop her from
trying to pick his pockets. Once again, you are a person with a very
one-sided and hypocritical view of things. If he's good enough to pay
then he's good enough to cultivate a relationship with his daughter.

I'm sick and tired of these women that think because they got custody
by default that it somehow makes them a better parent. They act like
total bitches to make visitation an ordeal then say something like "I
never stopped you from seeing your kid" as if that somehow relieves
them from any responsibility for their actions. You want us to have
all the responsibilities and the draconian measures to make sure YOU
get paid but when it's time for a little effort on your part, you act
like the child is all your own. You want to run around claiming the
title of "single mom doing it all on her owm" even though you are
getting child support and oftentimes welfare. You use your child as an
excuse and a shield. You use them to satisfy your own emotional needs.

We've all seen the type I'm talking about. Not all CP mothers are like
this but those that are engage in their own form of child abuse. Ask
yourself what YOU have done to support your child aside from taking
money from everyone else to babysit your own child.

A mother protecting her child IS a powerful thing but a mother
protecting herself by using her child is a powerful EVIL thing.

"Seriously" wrote in message
...

DB Wrote:
--
You are disgusting. You remind me of the ex I'm currently having
problems with. You want the money, the control, the time with the
kids. What entitles you to all the goodies while he gets pushed
away?--

It's drilled into their heads that the law is on their side, they get
all
the money and tax benefits, and we men get to pay woman because some
how we
men can't care for a child the same as a woman can.

It's a 50's model of man works and pays while woman stays home and
cares for
child.

Did you miss the part where she said that he didn't want anything to do
with the child in the beginning? We aren't talking about some poor man
that started out as a father and just wants to be with his daughter.
When men treat the mother's of their children with the respect and
decentsy that they deserve, they will have an equal partnership.

He didn't get pushed away, he walked away and stayed away. Own up! Be
there! Don't give her a reason to push you away. A mother protecting
her child is a powerful thing.

As is a mother destroying her child.





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Seriously

A mother protecting her child is a powerful thing.

As is a mother destroying her child.

AT this point, there is not a lot of women out there that know how to be a
real mother.

Most of them just treat the child like a real burden and can't wait for the
problem to growup and go away.