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Who has the ultimate right to choose?
"elizabeth" wrote in message ups.com... On Apr 8, 7:21 pm, "Gini" wrote: "elizabeth" wrote ................. Letting your child live in poverty means you are the sort of heartless asshole who should be castrated, because we don't need more irresponsible assholes breeding children that the rest of society must support. == Indeed. Sterilize all welfare women of childbearing age. As long as you sterilize all the men impregnating them, fine. And since vasectomies are a couple of orders of magnitude CHEAPER than tubals, and since vasectomies are at least an order of magnitude MORE EFFECTIVE THAN TUBALS, it's far more cost effective to snip the men, especially when you factor in the cost of medical complications of tubals . . . tubals do kill women, but no man has ever died from a vasectomy. Oh for goodness sake, grow up!! If a woman is banging out a ******* a year, by a different man each time, she should have her plumbing removed so she can't bring any more children into the world that she has no intention of ever supporting. If a man is reepopulating a small city with his bedroom antice, he should be similarly rendered sterile. Everyone needs to take responsibility for their own sexual behavior. And setting up a system where woman bears child, and dad pays for 18-22 years is NOT effective. 50/50 joint custody with both parents being required to work to support the child their 50% of the time would be far more realistic. |
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Who has the ultimate right to choose?
"elizabeth" wrote in message oups.com... On Apr 8, 7:37 pm, "Gini" wrote: And you know this how? Come to think of it, I don't know any women who have died from a tubal. Heh, perhaps I'm running with a different crowd. OK, we're using Gina Knows Proof. The only cases that matter are the women Gina Knows. I know of women who have died and have had very, very serious complications from pills and IUDs. Um--after they died from their tubals, they STILL had very, very serious complications from pills and IUDs?? That really IS bad!! |
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Who has the ultimate right to choose?
"Gini" wrote in message news:qwiSh.933$Lm.323@trndny05... "elizabeth" wrote On Apr 8, 7:37 pm, "Gini" wrote: "elizabeth" wrote On Apr 8, 7:21 pm, "Gini" wrote: "elizabeth" wrote ................. Letting your child live in poverty means you are the sort of heartless asshole who should be castrated, because we don't need more irresponsible assholes breeding children that the rest of society must support. == Indeed. Sterilize all welfare women of childbearing age. As long as you sterilize all the men impregnating them, fine. == G So, how is it that a man would impregnate a sterilized woman? == .......................... no man has ever died from a vasectomy. == And you know this how? Come to think of it, I don't know any women who have died from a tubal. Heh, perhaps I'm running with a different crowd. And more research . . .. Intraoperative complications such as: Unintended, unplanned major surgery or laparotomy due to a problem during the tubal ligation procedure, This complication occurs at a rate of approximately 0.9 per 100 tubal ligation procedures. Blood transfusions A life-threatening event Death Postoperative complications include those that occur intraoperatively, as well as: Febrile morbidity Rehospitalization Death caused by a complication that occurs up to 42 days of your tubal ligation surgery. == You weren't paying attention, hon. Complications (which are extremely rare) do not equal *death from a tubal.* Nice try, though. You are quite entertaining tonight. Now, about the man who impregnates a sterile woman....? With all the complications that can happen to women who don't want children, maybe they could just stop offering it to every man who asks. Surely chastity is still a choice! |
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"teachrmama" wrote "Gini" wrote ...................................... == You weren't paying attention, hon. Complications (which are extremely rare) do not equal *death from a tubal.* Nice try, though. You are quite entertaining tonight. Now, about the man who impregnates a sterile woman....? With all the complications that can happen to women who don't want children, maybe they could just stop offering it to every man who asks. Surely chastity is still a choice! == What?? Expect women to accept responsibility for their own bodies? What's come over you? All the women elizabeth knows are far too weak for this and need the government to protect them. It really is sad. |
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Who has the ultimate right to choose?
"Gini" wrote in message news:q2jSh.3656$jS1.2180@trndny07... "teachrmama" wrote "Gini" wrote ..................................... == You weren't paying attention, hon. Complications (which are extremely rare) do not equal *death from a tubal.* Nice try, though. You are quite entertaining tonight. Now, about the man who impregnates a sterile woman....? With all the complications that can happen to women who don't want children, maybe they could just stop offering it to every man who asks. Surely chastity is still a choice! == What?? Expect women to accept responsibility for their own bodies? What's come over you? All the women elizabeth knows are far too weak for this and need the government to protect them. It really is sad. Yes, it really is sad. Hmmmmm....I wonder how many men elizabeth has taking care of her and her children. |
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Who has the ultimate right to choose?
elizabeth wrote:
On Apr 4, 10:34 am, "Chris" wrote: "CafeWriter" wrote in message snip I've had enough. For all the men who got women pregnant and decided to become deadbeat fathers, Men don't decide to become fathers; women make that decision; unless, of course, your definition of fatherhood begins at conception. Men are free to get vasectomies before sex, they are free to use condoms. Women can't get vasectomies nor decide to use condoms, that's the man's choice. So you don't have as many choices as women, too bad. Women have many more choices of reversable contraception. If women had a method as cheap, safe, and effective as vasectomy, that could be as easily reversed, Norplant. Depo provera. And vasectomies are NOT easily reversed. But because most men feel entitled to sexual access, Like women feel entitled to have men pay for their choices? Now geez that's probably part of the reason why some women chose abortions; they already knew that the men that got them pregnant wouldn't help them out. Did you purposely decide to not answer my above question, or did you simply overlook it? So what's your beef, mad about paying child support? Well, why not get custody and make her pay you? Doesn't happen. -- Ray Fischer |
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Who has the ultimate right to choose?
elizabeth wrote:
"Gini" wrote: "elizabeth" wrote ................. Letting your child live in poverty means you are the sort of heartless asshole who should be castrated, because we don't need more irresponsible assholes breeding children that the rest of society must support. == Indeed. Sterilize all welfare women of childbearing age. As long as you sterilize all the men impregnating them, fine. And since vasectomies are a couple of orders of magnitude CHEAPER than tubals, and since vasectomies are at least an order of magnitude MORE EFFECTIVE THAN TUBALS, it's far more cost effective to snip the men, especially when you factor in the cost of medical complications of tubals . . . tubals do kill women, but no man has ever died from a vasectomy. That's not true. Men have died from vasectomy, usually as a result of an infection. -- Ray Fischer |
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Who has the ultimate right to choose?
"Ray Fischer" wrote in message ... elizabeth wrote: "Gini" wrote: "elizabeth" wrote ................. Letting your child live in poverty means you are the sort of heartless asshole who should be castrated, because we don't need more irresponsible assholes breeding children that the rest of society must support. == Indeed. Sterilize all welfare women of childbearing age. As long as you sterilize all the men impregnating them, fine. And since vasectomies are a couple of orders of magnitude CHEAPER than tubals, and since vasectomies are at least an order of magnitude MORE EFFECTIVE THAN TUBALS, it's far more cost effective to snip the men, especially when you factor in the cost of medical complications of tubals . . . tubals do kill women, but no man has ever died from a vasectomy. That's not true. Men have died from vasectomy, usually as a result of an infection. Now, now, Ray. elizabeth is painting the typical "Woman=Victim" picture. You don't want to go and ruin her artwork, do you? She's been fingerpainting all day!! |
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My experience has been that people who use the kind of offensive
language that Elizabeth uses below are not amenable to logic. However, for the benefit of others I will point out that the current situation in the U.S. is grotesquely skewed in favor of women. Women have a range of post-conception reproductive choices, and significant efforts are being made to enlarge those choices. A woman is able to choose unilaterally to have an abortion, to have the child but to take advantage of newborn dropoff laws, to put the child up for adoption, or to keep the child -- and bill the father, via "child support," for the choice she has made. Meantime, no effort is spared to deny men the choice that Nature has given them -- that of walking away from unwanted pregnancies. Furthermore, the suggestion that men can fix the problem by getting custody is of course disingenuous. As a practical matter, custody decisions are made, not by laws or by judges, but by mothers. If they want custody, they get it. There are many people, including me, who think that, as a moral matter, women should never have been given some of their present post-conception choices, notably infanticide through the repellent partial birth abortion procedure. But so long as women made unilateral choices, they should bear the sole responsibility for their own choices. "elizabeth" wrote in message oups.com... On Apr 4, 10:34 am, "Chris" wrote: "CafeWriter" wrote in message snip I've had enough. For all the men who got women pregnant and decided to become deadbeat fathers, Men don't decide to become fathers; women make that decision; unless, of course, your definition of fatherhood begins at conception. Men are free to get vasectomies before sex, they are free to use condoms. Women can't get vasectomies nor decide to use condoms, that's the man's choice. So you don't have as many choices as women, too bad. If women had a method as cheap, safe, and effective as vasectomy, that could be as easily reversed, if they could store ova just by having an orgasm the way men can store sperm . .. well, there wouldn't be many abortions at all. But because most men feel entitled to sexual access, and feel that it's not their problem if the woman gets pregnant, abortion will be needed, far more often than it should. you are not worth it. Shame on you. That's why if a father does not pay child support or help the mother out, then he is not truly a father that his child would know but rather a man who doesn't love his child. Not paying cash to a child's mother says NOTHING about not loving said child. Bull****. Letting your child live in poverty means you are the sort of heartless asshole who should be castrated, because we don't need more irresponsible assholes breeding children that the rest of society must support. In fact, that's very sociopathic, not caring about your own offspring. Maybe you realize your mother made the wrong choice on abortion, and thus, don't want your offspring to have a chance? Now geez that's probably part of the reason why some women chose abortions; they already knew that the men that got them pregnant wouldn't help them out. Did you purposely decide to not answer my above question, or did you simply overlook it? So what's your beef, mad about paying child support? Well, why not get custody and make her pay you? |
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Who has the ultimate right to choose?
On Mon, 09 Apr 2007 11:09:31 GMT, "Kenneth S."
wrote: But so long as women made unilateral choices, they should bear the sole responsibility for their own choices. I agree with the statement as written; however, just because a woman CAN make a choice to abort while a man cannot does not necessarily make it a unilateral choice. Children born within a marriage are often a choice made by both, although not always. Conversely, children born out of wedlock may be a choice made by both parents, but I would strongly advise any woman in this situation to make her own decisions based upon her own circumstances. My eldest's father wanted me to abort. We were not married. I made my decision to keep my baby and took sole responsibility for my decision. I never asked his father for anything. My younger two children were a product of my marriage to my ex husband. We made the decision together to have children before they were conceived. While I may have made the decision to divorce, it was based upon HIS decision to molest. If I really ever had a choice, I'd have chosen that he never do what he did. I don't feel bad asking that he bear some responsibility toward our children. That said, I STILL see providing for my children as something *I* must do. Women who DEPEND upon child support are only setting themselves and their children up. Both households should have a responsible parent, but the only parent we can MAKE responsible is ourselves. Beverly |
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