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Convincing woman to use abortion/adoption issue
Woman, mid 40s, discovers she is pregnant after seeing a man in another
state, who lives 3 hours away, only a few times and they stopped seeing each other the day after alleged conception occurred. The woman has three boys, 21, 17, and 9 from the same ex-husband. Both the man (who has no children) and woman are divorced, have professional jobs, and live in good neighborhoods. In this case, the man probably makes more than double the salary of the woman. What are some really good arguments for the man to use to convince (beg?) the woman to please use the option of abortion or adoption and not keep the baby? |
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Convincing woman to use abortion/adoption issue
"ABC" wrote in message .com...
Woman, mid 40s, discovers she is pregnant after seeing a man in another state, who lives 3 hours away, only a few times and they stopped seeing each other the day after alleged conception occurred. The woman has three boys, 21, 17, and 9 from the same ex-husband. Both the man (who has no children) and woman are divorced, have professional jobs, and live in good neighborhoods. In this case, the man probably makes more than double the salary of the woman. What are some really good arguments for the man to use to convince (beg?) the woman to please use the option of abortion or adoption and not keep the baby? Sorry, I cannot think of any arguments good or bad for a man to use to convince a woman to have an abortion or adopt out a child. The fact that the laws today leave that decision completely up to the woman, the only thing a man can do is to not have sex. Plain and simple. I'm not stating that the law giving the woman only the choice is right or wrong. Just the plain facts, that only the woman gets to make that choice. So, the only way for a man to be 100% sure of never having to pay child support for a one night fling, is not not have a one night fling. Men can be left with the greater financial burden and none of the choices with the consequences of a fling. So, until the law changes (which will probably not happen in our lifetimes), the only choice a man has in the matter of an unwanted or unexpected child is to say no to sex in the first place. |
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Convincing woman to use abortion/adoption issue
"ABC" wrote in message .com...
Woman, mid 40s, discovers she is pregnant after seeing a man in another state, who lives 3 hours away, only a few times and they stopped seeing each other the day after alleged conception occurred. The woman has three boys, 21, 17, and 9 from the same ex-husband. Both the man (who has no children) and woman are divorced, have professional jobs, and live in good neighborhoods. In this case, the man probably makes more than double the salary of the woman. What are some really good arguments for the man to use to convince (beg?) the woman to please use the option of abortion or adoption and not keep the baby? Sorry, I cannot think of any arguments good or bad for a man to use to convince a woman to have an abortion or adopt out a child. The fact that the laws today leave that decision completely up to the woman, the only thing a man can do is to not have sex. Plain and simple. I'm not stating that the law giving the woman only the choice is right or wrong. Just the plain facts, that only the woman gets to make that choice. So, the only way for a man to be 100% sure of never having to pay child support for a one night fling, is not not have a one night fling. Men can be left with the greater financial burden and none of the choices with the consequences of a fling. So, until the law changes (which will probably not happen in our lifetimes), the only choice a man has in the matter of an unwanted or unexpected child is to say no to sex in the first place. |
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Convincing woman to use abortion/adoption issue
"ABC" wrote in message .com...
Woman, mid 40s, discovers she is pregnant after seeing a man in another state, who lives 3 hours away, only a few times and they stopped seeing each other the day after alleged conception occurred. The woman has three boys, 21, 17, and 9 from the same ex-husband. Both the man (who has no children) and woman are divorced, have professional jobs, and live in good neighborhoods. In this case, the man probably makes more than double the salary of the woman. What are some really good arguments for the man to use to convince (beg?) the woman to please use the option of abortion or adoption and not keep the baby? Sorry, I cannot think of any arguments good or bad for a man to use to convince a woman to have an abortion or adopt out a child. The fact that the laws today leave that decision completely up to the woman, the only thing a man can do is to not have sex. Plain and simple. I'm not stating that the law giving the woman only the choice is right or wrong. Just the plain facts, that only the woman gets to make that choice. So, the only way for a man to be 100% sure of never having to pay child support for a one night fling, is not not have a one night fling. Men can be left with the greater financial burden and none of the choices with the consequences of a fling. So, until the law changes (which will probably not happen in our lifetimes), the only choice a man has in the matter of an unwanted or unexpected child is to say no to sex in the first place. |
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Convincing woman to use abortion/adoption issue
Leslie wrote:
"ABC" wrote in message .com... Woman, mid 40s, discovers she is pregnant after seeing a man in another state, who lives 3 hours away, only a few times and they stopped seeing each other the day after alleged conception occurred. The woman has three boys, 21, 17, and 9 from the same ex-husband. Both the man (who has no children) and woman are divorced, have professional jobs, and live in good neighborhoods. In this case, the man probably makes more than double the salary of the woman. What are some really good arguments for the man to use to convince (beg?) the woman to please use the option of abortion or adoption and not keep the baby? Sorry, I cannot think of any arguments good or bad for a man to use to convince a woman to have an abortion or adopt out a child. The fact that the laws today leave that decision completely up to the woman, the only thing a man can do is to not have sex. Sure. Ahem. Not an option. Plain and simple. I'm not stating that the law giving the woman only the choice is right or wrong. Just the plain facts, that only the woman gets to make that choice. So, the only way for a man to be 100% sure of never having to pay child support for a one night fling, is not not have a one night fling. So take your chances and make sure some form of contraceptive is bieng used. BTW, U.C.L.A. is asking for male participants for contraceptive testing right now. This should eliminate these problems in the future. Men can be left with the greater financial burden and none of the choices with the consequences of a fling. So, until the law changes (which will probably not happen in our lifetimes), the only choice a man has in the matter of an unwanted or unexpected child is to say no to sex in the first place. Too bad. I was thinking somewhere along the lines of a pre-nup like contract that left the choice to the woman but also the financial responsibility as well. This also eliminates the Koby Bryant like problems as well. HeHe. |
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Convincing woman to use abortion/adoption issue
Leslie wrote:
"ABC" wrote in message .com... Woman, mid 40s, discovers she is pregnant after seeing a man in another state, who lives 3 hours away, only a few times and they stopped seeing each other the day after alleged conception occurred. The woman has three boys, 21, 17, and 9 from the same ex-husband. Both the man (who has no children) and woman are divorced, have professional jobs, and live in good neighborhoods. In this case, the man probably makes more than double the salary of the woman. What are some really good arguments for the man to use to convince (beg?) the woman to please use the option of abortion or adoption and not keep the baby? Sorry, I cannot think of any arguments good or bad for a man to use to convince a woman to have an abortion or adopt out a child. The fact that the laws today leave that decision completely up to the woman, the only thing a man can do is to not have sex. Sure. Ahem. Not an option. Plain and simple. I'm not stating that the law giving the woman only the choice is right or wrong. Just the plain facts, that only the woman gets to make that choice. So, the only way for a man to be 100% sure of never having to pay child support for a one night fling, is not not have a one night fling. So take your chances and make sure some form of contraceptive is bieng used. BTW, U.C.L.A. is asking for male participants for contraceptive testing right now. This should eliminate these problems in the future. Men can be left with the greater financial burden and none of the choices with the consequences of a fling. So, until the law changes (which will probably not happen in our lifetimes), the only choice a man has in the matter of an unwanted or unexpected child is to say no to sex in the first place. Too bad. I was thinking somewhere along the lines of a pre-nup like contract that left the choice to the woman but also the financial responsibility as well. This also eliminates the Koby Bryant like problems as well. HeHe. |
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Convincing woman to use abortion/adoption issue
Leslie wrote:
"ABC" wrote in message .com... Woman, mid 40s, discovers she is pregnant after seeing a man in another state, who lives 3 hours away, only a few times and they stopped seeing each other the day after alleged conception occurred. The woman has three boys, 21, 17, and 9 from the same ex-husband. Both the man (who has no children) and woman are divorced, have professional jobs, and live in good neighborhoods. In this case, the man probably makes more than double the salary of the woman. What are some really good arguments for the man to use to convince (beg?) the woman to please use the option of abortion or adoption and not keep the baby? Sorry, I cannot think of any arguments good or bad for a man to use to convince a woman to have an abortion or adopt out a child. The fact that the laws today leave that decision completely up to the woman, the only thing a man can do is to not have sex. Sure. Ahem. Not an option. Plain and simple. I'm not stating that the law giving the woman only the choice is right or wrong. Just the plain facts, that only the woman gets to make that choice. So, the only way for a man to be 100% sure of never having to pay child support for a one night fling, is not not have a one night fling. So take your chances and make sure some form of contraceptive is bieng used. BTW, U.C.L.A. is asking for male participants for contraceptive testing right now. This should eliminate these problems in the future. Men can be left with the greater financial burden and none of the choices with the consequences of a fling. So, until the law changes (which will probably not happen in our lifetimes), the only choice a man has in the matter of an unwanted or unexpected child is to say no to sex in the first place. Too bad. I was thinking somewhere along the lines of a pre-nup like contract that left the choice to the woman but also the financial responsibility as well. This also eliminates the Koby Bryant like problems as well. HeHe. |
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Convincing woman to use abortion/adoption issue
"dani" wrote in message k.net... Leslie wrote: "ABC" wrote in message .com... Woman, mid 40s, discovers she is pregnant after seeing a man in another state, who lives 3 hours away, only a few times and they stopped seeing each other the day after alleged conception occurred. The woman has three boys, 21, 17, and 9 from the same ex-husband. Both the man (who has no children) and woman are divorced, have professional jobs, and live in good neighborhoods. In this case, the man probably makes more than double the salary of the woman. What are some really good arguments for the man to use to convince (beg?) the woman to please use the option of abortion or adoption and not keep the baby? ----------------- If she won't abort or adopt then the man is screwed. If he is childfree and wants to stay that way he better get to a clinic very fast for a snip. Although unprotected sex is still just a very bad thing. --------------------- Sorry, I cannot think of any arguments good or bad for a man to use to convince a woman to have an abortion or adopt out a child. The fact that the laws today leave that decision completely up to the woman, the only thing a man can do is to not have sex. Sure. Ahem. Not an option. Plain and simple. I'm not stating that the law giving the woman only the choice is right or wrong. Just the plain facts, that only the woman gets to make that choice. So, the only way for a man to be 100% sure of never having to pay child support for a one night fling, is not not have a one night fling. So take your chances and make sure some form of contraceptive is bieng used. BTW, U.C.L.A. is asking for male participants for contraceptive testing right now. This should eliminate these problems in the future. ------------------ I think male contraceptives are going to be wonderful. If guys will be smart enough to use them it could mean future changes for the family courts. ------------------------- Men can be left with the greater financial burden and none of the choices with the consequences of a fling. So, until the law changes (which will probably not happen in our lifetimes), the only choice a man has in the matter of an unwanted or unexpected child is to say no to sex in the first place. Too bad. I was thinking somewhere along the lines of a pre-nup like contract that left the choice to the woman but also the financial responsibility as well. This also eliminates the Koby Bryant like problems as well. HeHe. -------------------------------------------- A pre-nup will not stop the financial responsibility. The court will award child support no matter what kind of agreement the parents have. That bs 'best interests' thing. And saying that a man just has "to say no to sex" is bull. He does have to be responsible and use protection at all times, (and remember to take his pill, but abstinance is certainly not his "only choice". ~AZ~ |
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Convincing woman to use abortion/adoption issue
"dani" wrote in message k.net... Leslie wrote: "ABC" wrote in message .com... Woman, mid 40s, discovers she is pregnant after seeing a man in another state, who lives 3 hours away, only a few times and they stopped seeing each other the day after alleged conception occurred. The woman has three boys, 21, 17, and 9 from the same ex-husband. Both the man (who has no children) and woman are divorced, have professional jobs, and live in good neighborhoods. In this case, the man probably makes more than double the salary of the woman. What are some really good arguments for the man to use to convince (beg?) the woman to please use the option of abortion or adoption and not keep the baby? ----------------- If she won't abort or adopt then the man is screwed. If he is childfree and wants to stay that way he better get to a clinic very fast for a snip. Although unprotected sex is still just a very bad thing. --------------------- Sorry, I cannot think of any arguments good or bad for a man to use to convince a woman to have an abortion or adopt out a child. The fact that the laws today leave that decision completely up to the woman, the only thing a man can do is to not have sex. Sure. Ahem. Not an option. Plain and simple. I'm not stating that the law giving the woman only the choice is right or wrong. Just the plain facts, that only the woman gets to make that choice. So, the only way for a man to be 100% sure of never having to pay child support for a one night fling, is not not have a one night fling. So take your chances and make sure some form of contraceptive is bieng used. BTW, U.C.L.A. is asking for male participants for contraceptive testing right now. This should eliminate these problems in the future. ------------------ I think male contraceptives are going to be wonderful. If guys will be smart enough to use them it could mean future changes for the family courts. ------------------------- Men can be left with the greater financial burden and none of the choices with the consequences of a fling. So, until the law changes (which will probably not happen in our lifetimes), the only choice a man has in the matter of an unwanted or unexpected child is to say no to sex in the first place. Too bad. I was thinking somewhere along the lines of a pre-nup like contract that left the choice to the woman but also the financial responsibility as well. This also eliminates the Koby Bryant like problems as well. HeHe. -------------------------------------------- A pre-nup will not stop the financial responsibility. The court will award child support no matter what kind of agreement the parents have. That bs 'best interests' thing. And saying that a man just has "to say no to sex" is bull. He does have to be responsible and use protection at all times, (and remember to take his pill, but abstinance is certainly not his "only choice". ~AZ~ |
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Convincing woman to use abortion/adoption issue
"dani" wrote in message k.net... Leslie wrote: "ABC" wrote in message .com... Woman, mid 40s, discovers she is pregnant after seeing a man in another state, who lives 3 hours away, only a few times and they stopped seeing each other the day after alleged conception occurred. The woman has three boys, 21, 17, and 9 from the same ex-husband. Both the man (who has no children) and woman are divorced, have professional jobs, and live in good neighborhoods. In this case, the man probably makes more than double the salary of the woman. What are some really good arguments for the man to use to convince (beg?) the woman to please use the option of abortion or adoption and not keep the baby? ----------------- If she won't abort or adopt then the man is screwed. If he is childfree and wants to stay that way he better get to a clinic very fast for a snip. Although unprotected sex is still just a very bad thing. --------------------- Sorry, I cannot think of any arguments good or bad for a man to use to convince a woman to have an abortion or adopt out a child. The fact that the laws today leave that decision completely up to the woman, the only thing a man can do is to not have sex. Sure. Ahem. Not an option. Plain and simple. I'm not stating that the law giving the woman only the choice is right or wrong. Just the plain facts, that only the woman gets to make that choice. So, the only way for a man to be 100% sure of never having to pay child support for a one night fling, is not not have a one night fling. So take your chances and make sure some form of contraceptive is bieng used. BTW, U.C.L.A. is asking for male participants for contraceptive testing right now. This should eliminate these problems in the future. ------------------ I think male contraceptives are going to be wonderful. If guys will be smart enough to use them it could mean future changes for the family courts. ------------------------- Men can be left with the greater financial burden and none of the choices with the consequences of a fling. So, until the law changes (which will probably not happen in our lifetimes), the only choice a man has in the matter of an unwanted or unexpected child is to say no to sex in the first place. Too bad. I was thinking somewhere along the lines of a pre-nup like contract that left the choice to the woman but also the financial responsibility as well. This also eliminates the Koby Bryant like problems as well. HeHe. -------------------------------------------- A pre-nup will not stop the financial responsibility. The court will award child support no matter what kind of agreement the parents have. That bs 'best interests' thing. And saying that a man just has "to say no to sex" is bull. He does have to be responsible and use protection at all times, (and remember to take his pill, but abstinance is certainly not his "only choice". ~AZ~ |
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