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How can I prosecute Child Stealing / Custodial Interference (CAL PC 278.5)
When selecting attorneys, it's important to check their track record.
It's very easy for attorneys, particularly those who are guest speakers at fathers' groups, to talk tough and try to create the impression that they will vigorously defend a father's interests. However, the acid test is their success rate in the past. "JR" wrote in message . com... Then you need a junkyard dog lawyer who is more than willing to take on judgeypoo and nail him to the wall along with mom. That costs, but there are times when you have to say; "No more Mr. Nice guy." Judges can be made to see the light. You are right. I've been going through this for 9 years and I my trusting/nice guy nature has always resulted in my accepting what my attorney tells me as gospel, despite my always knowing deep down that "this is unfair, this is wrong." I'm meeting for the second time this Saturday with the father's group I've hooked up with here in San Diego, and intend to ask about the best attorneys here. I signed the substitution of attorney form today so I can represent myself at the upcoming 7/6 contempt arraignment. I know how you feel about the pitfalls of Pro Se (Pro Per here), but I really feel I can be successful myself this time. I've been studying procedure, and I believe I've patched the tiny hole she snuck through on my last contempt attempt. |
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How can I prosecute Child Stealing / Custodial Interference (CAL PC 278.5)
When selecting attorneys, it's important to check their track record.
It's very easy for attorneys, particularly those who are guest speakers at fathers' groups, to talk tough and try to create the impression that they will vigorously defend a father's interests. However, the acid test is their success rate in the past. "JR" wrote in message . com... Then you need a junkyard dog lawyer who is more than willing to take on judgeypoo and nail him to the wall along with mom. That costs, but there are times when you have to say; "No more Mr. Nice guy." Judges can be made to see the light. You are right. I've been going through this for 9 years and I my trusting/nice guy nature has always resulted in my accepting what my attorney tells me as gospel, despite my always knowing deep down that "this is unfair, this is wrong." I'm meeting for the second time this Saturday with the father's group I've hooked up with here in San Diego, and intend to ask about the best attorneys here. I signed the substitution of attorney form today so I can represent myself at the upcoming 7/6 contempt arraignment. I know how you feel about the pitfalls of Pro Se (Pro Per here), but I really feel I can be successful myself this time. I've been studying procedure, and I believe I've patched the tiny hole she snuck through on my last contempt attempt. |
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How can I prosecute Child Stealing / Custodial Interference (CAL PC 278.5)
When selecting attorneys, it's important to check their track record.
It's very easy for attorneys, particularly those who are guest speakers at fathers' groups, to talk tough and try to create the impression that they will vigorously defend a father's interests. However, the acid test is their success rate in the past. "JR" wrote in message . com... Then you need a junkyard dog lawyer who is more than willing to take on judgeypoo and nail him to the wall along with mom. That costs, but there are times when you have to say; "No more Mr. Nice guy." Judges can be made to see the light. You are right. I've been going through this for 9 years and I my trusting/nice guy nature has always resulted in my accepting what my attorney tells me as gospel, despite my always knowing deep down that "this is unfair, this is wrong." I'm meeting for the second time this Saturday with the father's group I've hooked up with here in San Diego, and intend to ask about the best attorneys here. I signed the substitution of attorney form today so I can represent myself at the upcoming 7/6 contempt arraignment. I know how you feel about the pitfalls of Pro Se (Pro Per here), but I really feel I can be successful myself this time. I've been studying procedure, and I believe I've patched the tiny hole she snuck through on my last contempt attempt. |
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How can I prosecute Child Stealing / Custodial Interference (CAL PC 278.5)
In article , Kenneth S. says...
When selecting attorneys, it's important to check their track record. It's very easy for attorneys, particularly those who are guest speakers at fathers' groups, to talk tough and try to create the impression that they will vigorously defend a father's interests. === And they do until they get the retainer. After that, their position seems to change into "Well, this is the best we can hope for so we better take it." ie: "I'm really too lazy to put forth a proper defense so be prepared for the worst." === (PLEASE NOTE: I never bottom-sign my posts. Check Headers to Verify the Authenticity of This Post) |
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How can I prosecute Child Stealing / Custodial Interference (CAL PC 278.5)
In article , Kenneth S. says...
When selecting attorneys, it's important to check their track record. It's very easy for attorneys, particularly those who are guest speakers at fathers' groups, to talk tough and try to create the impression that they will vigorously defend a father's interests. === And they do until they get the retainer. After that, their position seems to change into "Well, this is the best we can hope for so we better take it." ie: "I'm really too lazy to put forth a proper defense so be prepared for the worst." === (PLEASE NOTE: I never bottom-sign my posts. Check Headers to Verify the Authenticity of This Post) |
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How can I prosecute Child Stealing / Custodial Interference (CAL PC 278.5)
In article , Kenneth S. says...
When selecting attorneys, it's important to check their track record. It's very easy for attorneys, particularly those who are guest speakers at fathers' groups, to talk tough and try to create the impression that they will vigorously defend a father's interests. === And they do until they get the retainer. After that, their position seems to change into "Well, this is the best we can hope for so we better take it." ie: "I'm really too lazy to put forth a proper defense so be prepared for the worst." === (PLEASE NOTE: I never bottom-sign my posts. Check Headers to Verify the Authenticity of This Post) |
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How can I prosecute Child Stealing / Custodial Interference (CAL PC 278.5)
"JR" wrote in message . com... Then you need a junkyard dog lawyer who is more than willing to take on judgeypoo and nail him to the wall along with mom. That costs, but there are times when you have to say; "No more Mr. Nice guy." Judges can be made to see the light. You are right. I've been going through this for 9 years and I my trusting/nice guy nature has always resulted in my accepting what my attorney tells me as gospel, despite my always knowing deep down that "this is unfair, this is wrong." The big thing is educating yourself. I won custody of my kids from my first marriage, but it cost me well over $100,00 back in 1980 money. It cost that much from mistakes my lawyer made. One massive screwup mad me have to hire a lawyer in a second state. Lawyer in state 1 said we did NOT have to mention the UCCJA or that the court had jurisdiction or file the order in the state she ran to. So I got to do TWO custody battles simultaneously and had to win BOTH! I had told him we needed to, and I got the old; "I am the lawyer here" routine. After that mess he never pulled that on me a second time. I'm meeting for the second time this Saturday with the father's group I've hooked up with here in San Diego, and intend to ask about the best attorneys here. I signed the substitution of attorney form today so I can represent myself at the upcoming 7/6 contempt arraignment. I know how you feel about the pitfalls of Pro Se (Pro Per here), but I really feel I can be successful myself this time. I've been studying procedure, and I believe I've patched the tiny hole she snuck through on my last contempt attempt. A good lawyer will eat you alive. There are so many procedural things to know. But you can't do worse than a BAD lawyer! Just remember the lesser of two evils is still evil. Find a GOOD lawyer, they exist no matter what some KOOKS say! |
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How can I prosecute Child Stealing / Custodial Interference (CAL PC 278.5)
"JR" wrote in message . com... Then you need a junkyard dog lawyer who is more than willing to take on judgeypoo and nail him to the wall along with mom. That costs, but there are times when you have to say; "No more Mr. Nice guy." Judges can be made to see the light. You are right. I've been going through this for 9 years and I my trusting/nice guy nature has always resulted in my accepting what my attorney tells me as gospel, despite my always knowing deep down that "this is unfair, this is wrong." The big thing is educating yourself. I won custody of my kids from my first marriage, but it cost me well over $100,00 back in 1980 money. It cost that much from mistakes my lawyer made. One massive screwup mad me have to hire a lawyer in a second state. Lawyer in state 1 said we did NOT have to mention the UCCJA or that the court had jurisdiction or file the order in the state she ran to. So I got to do TWO custody battles simultaneously and had to win BOTH! I had told him we needed to, and I got the old; "I am the lawyer here" routine. After that mess he never pulled that on me a second time. I'm meeting for the second time this Saturday with the father's group I've hooked up with here in San Diego, and intend to ask about the best attorneys here. I signed the substitution of attorney form today so I can represent myself at the upcoming 7/6 contempt arraignment. I know how you feel about the pitfalls of Pro Se (Pro Per here), but I really feel I can be successful myself this time. I've been studying procedure, and I believe I've patched the tiny hole she snuck through on my last contempt attempt. A good lawyer will eat you alive. There are so many procedural things to know. But you can't do worse than a BAD lawyer! Just remember the lesser of two evils is still evil. Find a GOOD lawyer, they exist no matter what some KOOKS say! |
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How can I prosecute Child Stealing / Custodial Interference (CAL PC 278.5)
"JR" wrote in message . com... Then you need a junkyard dog lawyer who is more than willing to take on judgeypoo and nail him to the wall along with mom. That costs, but there are times when you have to say; "No more Mr. Nice guy." Judges can be made to see the light. You are right. I've been going through this for 9 years and I my trusting/nice guy nature has always resulted in my accepting what my attorney tells me as gospel, despite my always knowing deep down that "this is unfair, this is wrong." The big thing is educating yourself. I won custody of my kids from my first marriage, but it cost me well over $100,00 back in 1980 money. It cost that much from mistakes my lawyer made. One massive screwup mad me have to hire a lawyer in a second state. Lawyer in state 1 said we did NOT have to mention the UCCJA or that the court had jurisdiction or file the order in the state she ran to. So I got to do TWO custody battles simultaneously and had to win BOTH! I had told him we needed to, and I got the old; "I am the lawyer here" routine. After that mess he never pulled that on me a second time. I'm meeting for the second time this Saturday with the father's group I've hooked up with here in San Diego, and intend to ask about the best attorneys here. I signed the substitution of attorney form today so I can represent myself at the upcoming 7/6 contempt arraignment. I know how you feel about the pitfalls of Pro Se (Pro Per here), but I really feel I can be successful myself this time. I've been studying procedure, and I believe I've patched the tiny hole she snuck through on my last contempt attempt. A good lawyer will eat you alive. There are so many procedural things to know. But you can't do worse than a BAD lawyer! Just remember the lesser of two evils is still evil. Find a GOOD lawyer, they exist no matter what some KOOKS say! |
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How can I prosecute Child Stealing / Custodial Interference (CAL PC 278.5)
"Kenneth S." wrote in message ... When selecting attorneys, it's important to check their track record. It's very easy for attorneys, particularly those who are guest speakers at fathers' groups, to talk tough and try to create the impression that they will vigorously defend a father's interests. However, the acid test is their success rate in the past. Yep find the former clients. Ask the men who paid him! |
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