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Question for Single Fathers
Hey Guys
I am just finishing up a book called Being Dad, Fathering After Separation of Divorce. I have one chapter in there called Keeping Your Child's Spirit Alive which is all about how you keep the memory of your kids alive when they are not at your home. Many have told me about hanging pictures and things but I was wondering if anyone out there has some unique ways of doing this? If you have anything you would like to contribute to this project I would love to hear from you. Cheers Steve Van Bakel Publisher / Father Tall Tales Press www.talltalespress.com |
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Being Dad wrote:
: Hey Guys : I am just finishing up a book called Being Dad, Fathering After Separation : of Divorce. I have one chapter in there called Keeping Your Child's Spirit : Alive which is all about how you keep the memory of your kids alive when : they are not at your home. Many have told me about hanging pictures and : things but I was wondering if anyone out there has some unique ways of doing : this? If you have anything you would like to contribute to this project I : would love to hear from you. I'm in that situation. Moveaway mom 115 miles away and a child that is dearly loved by both of us. Digital photography is great! I take photos of the fun things we do and look at them frequently to stay close to my son even though he's not with me (I do see him every week and have for his life ... 8 years old in a couple of weeks). Also, I phone him but not too frequently. He's not a big "phone guy" because his mom uses the phone a lot... real estate person). When I talk to him, I try to talk about things he likes vs. playing "20 questions". Last Monday, he played his music he was studying on the piano for me over the phone. He really liked that. I've read in the news that some people are starting to use web cameras to keep close to remote children although they shouldn't replace parenting time. They should add to parenting time. Now, I've had so many good times with him that his memory stays alive with me in my mind so I'm finding I take fewer pictures of him vs. when I was only able to visit him at his mom's area (before the overnight parenting time which wasn't awarded until he was about 2 1/2 yrs. old). The next challenge will come when he becomes a teenager and wants to hang out with his local friends. My solution is to have friends for him to play with at Dad's place too (although it takes some effort as I live in a rural area). Hope this helps, barry (part time, "standard visitation dad" for nearly 8 yrs) |
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Question for Single Fathers
I bought each one of my sons a wallet. When I give them their weekly
allowance I update their pictures in the wallet. (With computers in just about every house hold this is an easy task to do.) |
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My friend experienced this same problem. When he became seperated
from his kids, and only saw them every other weekend, he needed something to keep their mem with him. What he did is he started a Big projects with his kids... Something that they could all do together. He has 2 daughters, so he decided it would have to be something crafty, as both his daughters were such. So one weekend he took his Daughters to the craft store, and started buying supplies for the idea of doing an entire wall in his house a painting and stickup wall type thing. Every time his daughters would come over, they would work on this thing together whenever the time allowed between soccer... ballet... whatever else they had to do also. And well it took them about 8 months to complete. Now he has this wall that they all decorated together. Everything from pictures of them, to hand prints, to flowers the girls picked. To the average person it looks gawdy... But when ever I go over I can see how much he really loves it. Now he has started other projects... But he only works on them when they are around. He feels it's a good learning experience for both of them. I think his current project with them is making a hammok... His girls are 7 and 10. SpiderHam77 |
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