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Old March 3rd 05, 04:23 PM
Vero
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Hey Kate and Everyone else, mom's, dad's, How are you all doing? Well, at
the moment, my son is at his dad's house. He's been over there for the
past two weeks. Things have been going good. I have a new boyfriend. We've
been together for about a month and 2 days now. He's treats me great and
He keeps me happy. He's great with Andrew. By the way, Andrew's 2 yr.s and
10 mo.s. I'm trying to figure out again what I want to do for his birthday
this year. I need some help with that again, As I said, I'm open to
suggestions. I think I might just let him pick the stuff again. He's
really into spider-man so I dunno. I'm still in school and I'm doing very
good in school. I managed to get Andrew's dad mad at me again. When we
last talked, he just found out I have a new bf, so he wasn't too happy
with that. He tried to stay pretty mellow so that was alright. Then later
he called back and started complaining about random things because he was
mad.He hasn't really talked to me much since. To him, after I turn 18 in
October, we were going to move in together and be a family again and this
and that. So when he found out I have a bf, I think he got upset because I
ruined his plans. I realized before I got with my new bf that I was
waiting and I wasn't sure what I was waiting for, so I decided to hell
with it. I don't intend on going back out with Edwin anytime soon within
the next year/s and he knows it, but he was hoping otherwise, but were too
different now. He still has trust issues with me and were not even going
out. We haven't for like 2 yr.s now.Almost anyways. I still love the hell
outta him and he knows it, I just don't like for him to be mad at me ya
know. His mom's been real funny too the past like 5 months. She can't
stand me now and I have no clue what the heck I did. Anywho, so me and my
new boyfriend are good. I like how things are going and I can honestly say
that having a valentine again was awesome. I still don't have a new job
yet. I'm not too worried about that at the moment anymore. I'm still
trying to finish up school first. I called the other day, but Edwin didn't
want to answer the phone. I'll pick up Andrew this weekend so that'll be
fun. Well let me know how everything's going with all you. I'm always glad
to hear. E-mail me if you Thanks and good
bye

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Old March 21st 05, 03:06 AM
Cele
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On Thu, 03 Mar 2005 11:23:05 -0500, "Vero"
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Hey Kate and Everyone else, mom's, dad's, How are you all doing?


Hi Vero - things are good here. My kids are doing well, my youngest is
getting ready to move out and Paul G and I are getting married. :-)

Well, at
the moment, my son is at his dad's house. He's been over there for the
past two weeks. Things have been going good. I have a new boyfriend. We've
been together for about a month and 2 days now.


At a rough guess, huh? ;-)

He's treats me great and
He keeps me happy. He's great with Andrew. By the way, Andrew's 2 yr.s and
10 mo.s. I'm trying to figure out again what I want to do for his birthday
this year. I need some help with that again, As I said, I'm open to
suggestions. I think I might just let him pick the stuff again. He's
really into spider-man so I dunno.


At that age they have a fabulous time if you just take them somewhere
they can be physical, like a park, and feed them cake and hot dogs.

I'm still in school and I'm doing very
good in school.


Good for you! Congratulations on keeping those priorities in the front
line. It'll certainly pay off for both of you, I'm sure.

I managed to get Andrew's dad mad at me again. When we
last talked, he just found out I have a new bf, so he wasn't too happy
with that. He tried to stay pretty mellow so that was alright. Then later
he called back and started complaining about random things because he was
mad.He hasn't really talked to me much since. To him, after I turn 18 in
October, we were going to move in together and be a family again and this
and that. So when he found out I have a bf, I think he got upset because I
ruined his plans. I realized before I got with my new bf that I was
waiting and I wasn't sure what I was waiting for, so I decided to hell
with it. I don't intend on going back out with Edwin anytime soon within
the next year/s and he knows it, but he was hoping otherwise, but were too
different now. He still has trust issues with me and were not even going
out. We haven't for like 2 yr.s now.Almost anyways. I still love the hell
outta him and he knows it, I just don't like for him to be mad at me ya
know. His mom's been real funny too the past like 5 months. She can't
stand me now and I have no clue what the heck I did. Anywho, so me and my
new boyfriend are good. I like how things are going and I can honestly say
that having a valentine again was awesome.


Sometimes hanging on and just waiting 'til the other parts of your
life are in order isn't such a bad idea. Hard to do, I know, but with
a two year old to raise, and school, you've got plenty on your plate.
For what it's worth, I didn't date for 12 1/2 years after my divorce -
and then, well, there it all was, out of the blue. Sometimes waiting
is really worth it. But that must sound like forever when you're not
eighteen yet. :-)

I still don't have a new job
yet. I'm not too worried about that at the moment anymore. I'm still
trying to finish up school first. I called the other day, but Edwin didn't
want to answer the phone. I'll pick up Andrew this weekend so that'll be
fun. Well let me know how everything's going with all you. I'm always glad
to hear. E-mail me if you Thanks and good
bye


Take care of yourself. Sorry an answer was so long coming. It's been
very busy here in my life, what with work and teens and all of the
other things that go on to make things interesting. I will be very
glad when Paul gets here next week, too.

Be well.

Cele
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Old March 22nd 05, 04:22 AM
CME
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"Cele" wrote in message
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On Thu, 03 Mar 2005 11:23:05 -0500, "Vero"
wrote:

Hey Kate and Everyone else, mom's, dad's, How are you all doing?


Hi Vero - things are good here. My kids are doing well, my youngest is
getting ready to move out and Paul G and I are getting married. :-)

Well, at
the moment, my son is at his dad's house. He's been over there for the
past two weeks. Things have been going good. I have a new boyfriend. We've
been together for about a month and 2 days now.


At a rough guess, huh? ;-)

He's treats me great and
He keeps me happy. He's great with Andrew. By the way, Andrew's 2 yr.s and
10 mo.s. I'm trying to figure out again what I want to do for his birthday
this year. I need some help with that again, As I said, I'm open to
suggestions. I think I might just let him pick the stuff again. He's
really into spider-man so I dunno.


At that age they have a fabulous time if you just take them somewhere
they can be physical, like a park, and feed them cake and hot dogs.

I'm still in school and I'm doing very
good in school.


Good for you! Congratulations on keeping those priorities in the front
line. It'll certainly pay off for both of you, I'm sure.

I managed to get Andrew's dad mad at me again. When we
last talked, he just found out I have a new bf, so he wasn't too happy
with that. He tried to stay pretty mellow so that was alright. Then later
he called back and started complaining about random things because he was
mad.He hasn't really talked to me much since. To him, after I turn 18 in
October, we were going to move in together and be a family again and this
and that. So when he found out I have a bf, I think he got upset because I
ruined his plans. I realized before I got with my new bf that I was
waiting and I wasn't sure what I was waiting for, so I decided to hell
with it. I don't intend on going back out with Edwin anytime soon within
the next year/s and he knows it, but he was hoping otherwise, but were too
different now. He still has trust issues with me and were not even going
out. We haven't for like 2 yr.s now.Almost anyways. I still love the hell
outta him and he knows it, I just don't like for him to be mad at me ya
know. His mom's been real funny too the past like 5 months. She can't
stand me now and I have no clue what the heck I did. Anywho, so me and my
new boyfriend are good. I like how things are going and I can honestly say
that having a valentine again was awesome.


Sometimes hanging on and just waiting 'til the other parts of your
life are in order isn't such a bad idea. Hard to do, I know, but with
a two year old to raise, and school, you've got plenty on your plate.
For what it's worth, I didn't date for 12 1/2 years after my divorce -
and then, well, there it all was, out of the blue. Sometimes waiting
is really worth it. But that must sound like forever when you're not
eighteen yet. :-)

I still don't have a new job
yet. I'm not too worried about that at the moment anymore. I'm still
trying to finish up school first. I called the other day, but Edwin didn't
want to answer the phone. I'll pick up Andrew this weekend so that'll be
fun. Well let me know how everything's going with all you. I'm always glad
to hear. E-mail me if you Thanks and good
bye


Take care of yourself. Sorry an answer was so long coming. It's been
very busy here in my life, what with work and teens and all of the
other things that go on to make things interesting. I will be very
glad when Paul gets here next week, too.

Be well.

Cele


Is he there for good or just another visit?

Christine


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Old March 22nd 05, 07:22 AM
Cele
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On Tue, 22 Mar 2005 04:22:55 GMT, "CME"
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Take care of yourself. Sorry an answer was so long coming. It's been
very busy here in my life, what with work and teens and all of the
other things that go on to make things interesting. I will be very
glad when Paul gets here next week, too.

Be well.

Cele


Is he there for good or just another visit?


It's spring break. He's here until the end of it, which for him is
April 9th, and then he has to go back to finish out the school year.

He'll be here for good at the end of July/early August.

Cele
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Old March 22nd 05, 07:34 AM
CME
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"Cele" wrote in message
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On Tue, 22 Mar 2005 04:22:55 GMT, "CME"
wrote:


Take care of yourself. Sorry an answer was so long coming. It's been
very busy here in my life, what with work and teens and all of the
other things that go on to make things interesting. I will be very
glad when Paul gets here next week, too.

Be well.

Cele


Is he there for good or just another visit?


It's spring break. He's here until the end of it, which for him is
April 9th, and then he has to go back to finish out the school year.

He'll be here for good at the end of July/early August.

Cele


Ah well that's nice he's spending his break with you and what a relief it'll
be when it's for good in July. So how are the wedding plans coming along?

Christine


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Old March 22nd 05, 04:03 PM
Cele
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On Tue, 22 Mar 2005 07:34:08 GMT, "CME"
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"Cele" wrote in message
.. .
On Tue, 22 Mar 2005 04:22:55 GMT, "CME"
wrote:


Take care of yourself. Sorry an answer was so long coming. It's been
very busy here in my life, what with work and teens and all of the
other things that go on to make things interesting. I will be very
glad when Paul gets here next week, too.

Be well.

Cele

Is he there for good or just another visit?


It's spring break. He's here until the end of it, which for him is
April 9th, and then he has to go back to finish out the school year.

He'll be here for good at the end of July/early August.

Cele


Ah well that's nice he's spending his break with you and what a relief it'll
be when it's for good in July. So how are the wedding plans coming along?


Welllll....it's interesting you should ask that.....we were just
talking about that very question the other day.....

What we were talking about was whether we *really* want to keep quiet
about the weddings.....

And we decided, nah, hell, we don't.

And yes, I said weddingS.

What is happening is, we're having a proper church wedding in December
- probably December 17th, but we're still sorting out the details.

But immigration needs are such that we've also arranged a civil
wedding. Sooner.

Much sooner.

In 10 days, actually.

And the plans are coming just fine, thanks.

I went crazy and bought a nice new dress and everything.

Cele
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Old March 22nd 05, 04:08 PM
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"Cele" wrote in message
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On Tue, 22 Mar 2005 07:34:08 GMT, "CME"
wrote:


"Cele" wrote in message
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On Tue, 22 Mar 2005 04:22:55 GMT, "CME"
wrote:


Take care of yourself. Sorry an answer was so long coming. It's been
very busy here in my life, what with work and teens and all of the
other things that go on to make things interesting. I will be very
glad when Paul gets here next week, too.

Be well.

Cele

Is he there for good or just another visit?

It's spring break. He's here until the end of it, which for him is
April 9th, and then he has to go back to finish out the school year.

He'll be here for good at the end of July/early August.

Cele


Ah well that's nice he's spending his break with you and what a relief
it'll
be when it's for good in July. So how are the wedding plans coming along?


Welllll....it's interesting you should ask that.....we were just
talking about that very question the other day.....

What we were talking about was whether we *really* want to keep quiet
about the weddings.....

And we decided, nah, hell, we don't.

And yes, I said weddingS.

What is happening is, we're having a proper church wedding in December
- probably December 17th, but we're still sorting out the details.

But immigration needs are such that we've also arranged a civil
wedding. Sooner.

Much sooner.

In 10 days, actually.

And the plans are coming just fine, thanks.

I went crazy and bought a nice new dress and everything.

Cele


Good for you!!!!


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Old March 22nd 05, 04:19 PM
CME
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"Cele" wrote in message
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On Tue, 22 Mar 2005 07:34:08 GMT, "CME"
wrote:


"Cele" wrote in message
. ..
On Tue, 22 Mar 2005 04:22:55 GMT, "CME"
wrote:


Take care of yourself. Sorry an answer was so long coming. It's been
very busy here in my life, what with work and teens and all of the
other things that go on to make things interesting. I will be very
glad when Paul gets here next week, too.

Be well.

Cele

Is he there for good or just another visit?

It's spring break. He's here until the end of it, which for him is
April 9th, and then he has to go back to finish out the school year.

He'll be here for good at the end of July/early August.

Cele


Ah well that's nice he's spending his break with you and what a relief
it'll
be when it's for good in July. So how are the wedding plans coming along?


Welllll....it's interesting you should ask that.....we were just
talking about that very question the other day.....

What we were talking about was whether we *really* want to keep quiet
about the weddings.....

And we decided, nah, hell, we don't.

And yes, I said weddingS.

What is happening is, we're having a proper church wedding in December
- probably December 17th, but we're still sorting out the details.

But immigration needs are such that we've also arranged a civil
wedding. Sooner.

Much sooner.

In 10 days, actually.

And the plans are coming just fine, thanks.

I went crazy and bought a nice new dress and everything.

Cele


Hmmm why does immigration require you guys to get married ahead of schedule?
I'll definitely come to the one in December, but it's a shame that the gov't
is forcing you guys to jump through red tape.

Christine


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Old March 23rd 05, 12:12 PM
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"Cele" wrote in message
...
On Tue, 22 Mar 2005 07:34:08 GMT, "CME"
wrote:


"Cele" wrote in message
. ..
On Tue, 22 Mar 2005 04:22:55 GMT, "CME"
wrote:


Take care of yourself. Sorry an answer was so long coming. It's been
very busy here in my life, what with work and teens and all of the
other things that go on to make things interesting. I will be very
glad when Paul gets here next week, too.

Be well.

Cele

Is he there for good or just another visit?

It's spring break. He's here until the end of it, which for him is
April 9th, and then he has to go back to finish out the school year.

He'll be here for good at the end of July/early August.

Cele


Ah well that's nice he's spending his break with you and what a relief
it'll
be when it's for good in July. So how are the wedding plans coming along?


Welllll....it's interesting you should ask that.....we were just
talking about that very question the other day.....

What we were talking about was whether we *really* want to keep quiet
about the weddings.....

And we decided, nah, hell, we don't.

And yes, I said weddingS.

What is happening is, we're having a proper church wedding in December
- probably December 17th, but we're still sorting out the details.

But immigration needs are such that we've also arranged a civil
wedding. Sooner.

Much sooner.

In 10 days, actually.

And the plans are coming just fine, thanks.

I went crazy and bought a nice new dress and everything.

Cele


Wow.... congrads! Have a great break btw.

T


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Old March 23rd 05, 02:51 PM
Cele
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On Wed, 23 Mar 2005 07:12:41 -0500, "Tiffany" wrote:

be when it's for good in July. So how are the wedding plans coming along?


Welllll....it's interesting you should ask that.....we were just
talking about that very question the other day.....

What we were talking about was whether we *really* want to keep quiet
about the weddings.....

And we decided, nah, hell, we don't.

And yes, I said weddingS.

What is happening is, we're having a proper church wedding in December
- probably December 17th, but we're still sorting out the details.

But immigration needs are such that we've also arranged a civil
wedding. Sooner.

Much sooner.

In 10 days, actually.

And the plans are coming just fine, thanks.

I went crazy and bought a nice new dress and everything.

Cele


Wow.... congrads! Have a great break btw.


Thanks. :-) I suspect we will!

Cele
 




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