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15 mo old sleeping problems and hitting
getting my 15 month old daughter to sleep at night is very hard! she
sleeps with us in bed that is a mattress on the floor. by husband and i go in the room and turn off the lights and lay down. we give her a bottle and turn on some calm music. she crawls around the room wining and crying for about 1-2 hours before she crawls on the bed between us and goes to sleep. it has never been this hard before. we have been putting her to sleep like this since she was born. before we use to move her to her crib after she fell asleep. we moved and for a few months did not have a crib so she would sleep with us and now hates the crib so she sleeps with us, which we don't mind at all. when we moved into our new house she stayed with my parents for a few months while we fixed and painted this house. they way they put her to bed was either put her in the play room with a mattress on the floor and stay there until she feel asleep or put her in the crib that was next to the bed and she would wine a little bit and go to sleep. now that she is here with us all of the time the problem is getting worse. each night it take more crying to get her to sleep. her wine is more of "i dont was to sleep i want to play" then anything else. she also bangs her head against the floor and walls and puts her head on the floor and crawls for a few feet (which gives her rug burn on her forehead). she use to fall asleep around 9pm not its around 12am. she takes a 2 hour nap around 2:30pm. at night she wakes up at 3am for a bottle and goes to sleep. we tried to substitute the milk for water but does not work, she still seems hungry. I don't know what to do. I feel bad leaving her in the room and letting her cry it out. I have tried giving her a bath and not giving her a bath, makes no difference. Feeding her more heavy foods and lighter foods. Having music on and off. We can't use the crib as a bed any more since we are afraid that she will crawl out plus she bangs her head on the wood. Oh and she is starting to hit more now. She will come up to you and hit your face really hard. She does this randomly. When she is playing and everything is fine she will hit you and think it's funny, or if you tell her no or if she doesn't like something she will hit you and then if you say no that is bad to turn away she will cry and try to give you a hug then hit you again. We have tried to slap her hand back and say no, just say no, walk away, act like nothing happened and none of those worked. She is becoming a big brat and I don't know how to stop it. Please help. How can we get her to start going to sleep within 30min with out these tamper tantrums and stop hitting everyone? |
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15 mo old sleeping problems and hitting
i don't spank, no will i ever! what in the world made you think that?
i think she is understanding that others feel similar to her. about a month ago she bit me and i say ouch! that hurts, don't bit mommy. so then she bit her self on the same spot as she bit me and then bit me again (lighter this time). i guess it didn't hurt to her so she showed me that it doesn't hurt. every time she hits we act all hurt and that makes her come up to us and hug us then hit us again. i will try the not happy place and tell my parents to do the same. she hits them more then she hit me. she hardly ever hits my husband, but he only spends a few hours with her a day. __________________________________________________ __________ my mom told me that she went to sleep at 9:30 the night before she came back. so we started to put her to bed around 9:30 and try the "no crawl away". (when she was younger we would hold her down and she would fall asleep in 5 minutes, but as she got older that stopped working.) we got some ear plugs, got her clam and ready for bed, and as soon i closed the door she started crying. i turned on the monitor that has the music and projects moons and stars onto the ceiling and that seemed to work for a few minutes. then i tried to get her to lay down, and all hell broke loose! she started to hyperventilate so i picked her up to calm her down after she stopped hiccupping she put her head on my shoulder and fell right asleep. It took her about 20 minutes to calm down. But now we are back are rocking her to sleep. (she weighs 35lb. Rocking her for 20-30 minutes makes my arm go numb!) We are going to have to take this a lot slower then I thought; I think it will take about a month to get her to fall asleep with out fighting and in 10-15minutes. I don't want to shorten her sleep because if she doesn't get enough she gets really cranky for the whole day. Plus the longer she sleeps in the morning and afternoon the better it is for me. I can get some work done and catch up on my sleep. Thank you for all of your help |
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